Behavior, psychology and signs of a man in love

How a man in love behaves: gestures, facial expressions, postures and other non-verbal manifestations

Women always want to know what feelings a certain man has for her. NLP psychologists say: there is no need to beat around the bush, guess or ask leading questions, just close observation of the behavior and gestures of a potential chosen one is enough...

So, what does the body language of a man in love tell us?

When talking about the nonverbal behavior of a man in love, the first thing people pay attention to is his eyes. This is a real mirror of feelings and emotions; they reveal the true attitude towards oneself.

How does a man look at you? A representative of the stronger sex in love opens his eyes wide, looking at the object of his affection, as if he wants to examine every part of his beloved. He looks for a long time, studying, appraising, admiringly, starting from the face, sliding further along the perimeter of the whole body. This is done unconsciously - this is how the young man visualizes his actions towards you. But if you shoot your eyes back, your companion will quickly look away. He, of course, hopes for reciprocity, but this gesture promises that he does not want to be exposed so quickly. If the game is repeated again (despite the fact that you have noticed interest in yourself, he secretly looks at you again), be sure that the young man is interested in himself!

In the psychology of communication, there are three types of views: social, power and intimate. A man in love looks at a woman exclusively intimately, looking straight into her eyes, as if wanting to get into her very soul. There he looks for the answer to his innermost questions: “Are you ready to become mine?”, “Do you trust me?”, “Do you agree to move to a new level of communication?”

Pay attention to a man's eyes; some signs automatically indicate that he is in love:

• dilated pupils (indicate sincere sympathy, desire for intimacy, sexual attraction);
• shine (produced by the release of the hormone phenylethylamine, which makes us experience fever-like symptoms in the presence of a nice person);
• change in color (being next to a beloved woman, the eyes become a “pool”, so their color seems darker, more saturated, as if they were covered in a veil).

There is an interesting method in psychology that allows you to identify true sympathy for yourself using a glance. To do this, when communicating with a man, do not miss close eye contact with him for a long time. If a person has a crush on you, his brain will definitely respond to your message. You will notice excitement, embarrassment, a rush of blood to the face, uncontrolled facial expressions, etc. Using this technique, it is impossible to rekindle a guy’s feelings if they don’t exist, but you can discern an existing sympathy!

Facial expressions closely border on visual contact, so pay close attention to the man’s face when you are in his field of vision. The eyebrows are the first to “give up”! In a calm state, they are unshakable, however, having caught a pretty woman, they begin to fly uncontrollably up and down, displaying their inner experiences. If a man deliberately raises one eyebrow, this gesture demonstrates deep interest in the girl!

Falling in love is clearly indicated by a man’s olfactory organ. Our nose is quite sensitive, so when we are nervous, excited, or emotionally uplifted, we breathe more often, more intensely, and deeper. At the same time, the nostrils flare, as if instead of oxygen, a person in love inhales hot air! At the same time, the lips also treacherously dry out, which is why men in love often have to lick them with their tongues. This gesture speaks of a secret desire to kiss a pretty person. We are accustomed to the fact that only women do this in attempts to seduce a man, but this is a common physiological need in the presence of the object of adoration.

And, of course, a smile! She begins to play on the lips from the first second the beloved woman enters the man’s horizons and does not go away until he sees her. Moreover, it appears involuntarily. A man may notice this and change his facial expression, but over time it treacherously resurfaces. A smile, as a rule, is sincere, wide, and kind.

Please note: if a man starts smiling from the first word you say (even if it’s not addressed to him), this is a gesture of sincere sympathy! So intuitively he wants to seem more attractive to you!

Gestures and their meaning

If you want to understand whether a man is in love with you, pay attention to his body language. Sometimes he can say much more than words, since gestures are almost impossible to control

• When communicating, he often touches his lips and chin. This unconscious gesture can mean both embarrassment and a desire to kiss you.
• His gaze often shifts to your lips. Let's continue the theme with kisses.
• He constantly tries to touch you. Hold the elbow, squeeze the shoulder, remove a strand of hair that has fallen out of the hairstyle. This already speaks of sexual attraction.
• When talking, he may look slightly from under his brows, while his torso or head will be slightly tilted in your direction. Another sign of his caring attitude.

Gesticulation

Body language is an expression of feelings. With its help, you can learn not only about sympathy for yourself, but also, in principle, read all the secrets of human consciousness, since every gesture carries its own message.

The first thing that shows increased attention to a girl is the gestures of the hands of a man in love. They are always on the move. If you are discussing something, your companion’s hands actively accompany the conversation, because the guy wants to impress you as much as possible and at least somehow get into the center of your attention. Open palms will often be shown, this is a gesture of frankness: “I am open to you, I trust you, I accept you.” Relaxed hands speak of goodwill, sincerity, and tenderness. But crossed or hidden hands in a pocket scream that the interlocutor has lost interest in what is happening. If a man begins to nervously fidget with something in his hands (car keys, key fob, napkin, phone), he wants to end the meeting as soon as possible.

Follow your companion's fingers; Freud also said that their demonstration reflects sexual overtones. Does he show them, highlight them, expose them? If they are actively involved below the belt (putting thumbs in the belt of trousers, sticking fingers out of pockets, etc.) - a gesture of obvious manifestation of erotic interest, one’s authoritarianism, desire to dominate over a partner.

A man in love, when he sees a woman he is interested in, always takes care of his appearance: straightens his jacket, straightens his collar, tilts his head to look at his shoes, shakes dust off his pants.

What you need to know

Forewarned is forearmed. Love at 17 years old in adolescence is often associated with negative factors, which later lead to problems with studies, parents, and friends.

No, this does not mean at all that at 17 years old it is “impossible”. This is exactly the right age for a first relationship.

Personality formation

A person's personality develops throughout life. Each period is associated with the action of its own social and biological factors that influence the formation of a person’s character and worldview.

According to E. Erikson, 11-20 years are the time of puberty, adolescence and adolescence. During this period, the teenager’s self-determination and plans for the future are formed.

Guys and girls decide the main question: who to be and what to do in life? They experiment and play different roles in society.

“First love is not the first and not the last. This is the love in which we most of all invested ourselves, our soul, when we still had a soul,” - A. V. Vampilov

However, we are interested in the following: during this period there is a clear sexual polarization, i.e. development of sexual self-determination and associated forms of social behavior.

E. Erikson also highlights the abnormal side of personality development at the age of 11-20, when a person cannot focus on his future and often looks into the past.

His worldview and beliefs are mixed up and become unconvincing for the individual himself. The problem of “self-digging” appears. There is a confusion of forms of sexual behavior in society.

What can influence the formation of personality:

The Path to Coming of Age

17 years is a transitional age when a guy or girl is preparing for adulthood. During this period, teenagers begin to ask questions that they had not even thought about before (What is life?

How to live correctly? How to become happy? What to do to achieve success in society? What does the future hold for me? What will my parents say about me at 20-25 years old?).

In general, a person understands himself and his desires, needs, responsibilities, hobbies, and beliefs.

From the age of 16, most boys and girls experience attraction to the opposite sex. They ask questions about the sexual characteristics of men and women, their physiology, and sex.

And yes, sex at 16-18 years old is normal. The only thing you need to remember is the possible risks. First love at 17 will leave many memories that will last a lifetime.

Whether they will be good or negative depends on the teenagers themselves and their psychological state. By this age, a person becomes mature enough to “taste” relationships for the first time.

Body position

To determine whether a man is in love, it is enough to look at the entire pose and the manifestation of individual parts of the body. But here, to clarify, it would be appropriate to take into account the guy’s character and self-esteem.

Confident men with all their gestures and external manifestations say: “Look at me, I am the one you need,” “I am strong, brave, courageous, with me you will feel safe.” Representatives of the stronger sex with high self-esteem always “stretch out” in front of a woman, wanting to appear taller, straighten their shoulders, stick their chest forward, and lift their chin. This is how they try to please the one they are in love with. Psychologists often compare such chosen ones to peacocks, showing off in front of the peahens. The body is always turned towards the beloved, legs are widely spaced. A person who stands firm demonstrates his confidence and determination.

If a guy is not too confident in himself, he will have his own signs by which one can determine whether he is in love. His head will be slightly lowered, his posture will be tense, his shoulders will be tense, and his gestures will be stingy. If you stand opposite each other, the man will not be able to stand calmly and evenly. The legs will dance every now and then, change their point of support, pick the ground, etc.

If a man can show off his figure to his companion, he will do it with great pleasure. He will play with his biceps, expose his torso, show off his abs, wearing a tight T-shirt. He will be happy to help his beloved physically: lift something, move something, catch up with someone, show endurance, etc. Guys who ignore sports will not focus on their appearance, so they suck in their stomach, wear clothes of universal sizes, They prefer quiet leisure to active leisure.

Manifestations depending on age

If you are interested in what the signs of a man in love may be, you need to understand that a lot depends on the type of character and temperament of each individual guy. It is also worth taking into account the characteristics of age. This is exactly what we will talk about now.

1. Youth period. Platonic love prevails. Just the image of a girl gives rise to spiritual trepidation and a desire to see each other as often as possible. The image of a loved one evokes strong emotions, delight, experiences, and generates passion.
2. At the age of thirty, youthful maximalism can still make itself felt. The young man tries to impress his beloved with all his actions, does everything so that she notices him, sees that he is brave, strong, and is convinced of his readiness to fulfill any desires.
3. From thirty to thirty-five there can still be a predisposition to reckless actions, emotions without control, which can have disastrous consequences for both women and men. The need to possess a partner appears.
4. From thirty-five to forty-five is a turning point in a man’s life. All actions become deliberate, the experience of youth is behind us. Interest in a woman’s inner world comes first, responsibility and the need for a stable relationship are born.
5. After forty-five years - if before this time a man has not started a family or has negative experience, then disappointment may come. Such a person is not capable of feeling love. However, if a woman appears who can awaken old feelings in a man, then everything is still possible, although the manifestations of love will be restrained. A man needs trusting relationships and stability in family life.

Touch

Tactile contact is perhaps the most straightforward gesture indicating a man’s sympathy for a woman. The desire to touch your partner always speaks of falling in love, since you only want to feel closely a person who is pleasant to you. What can a girl notice? Firstly, the satellite is trying in every possible way to reduce the distance between you. For any reason: come close to better hear your story (show something “important”), sit closer so that there is enough space for others at the table, ask something, etc. His goal is to enter your personal space and simultaneously assess the response to this.

Secondly, pay attention to the guy's hands. A man in love always tries to unobtrusively, gently and easily touch the girl he likes. Remove a speck from your hair, shake a bug off your shoulder, “accidentally” touch it, support your elbow when descending from a slippery porch, put your hand close to yours at a meeting. If you are at the level of friendly relations, you may notice constant body movements in your direction: comic pushes, slapping the cheeks, pinching, hugging, scratching hair.

If there is more than friendship between you, but you don’t know what exactly a man feels for you, focus on his direct touches. He puts your hand tightly in his - a sign of deep affection, holds you by the waist - demonstrates his importance, touches you from behind - he is always ready to protect, console, support.

Please note: if a guy for some reason is in no hurry to touch, he may show his sympathy in a different way. For example, stroking a glass, phone, table surface, etc. with your finger. These gestures mean that he is determined to give your body affection and tenderness, but due to indecision, he is waiting for initiative from his companion. If he touches his own face, hair, neck, he is nervous because he cannot openly show his sympathy.

If you want to test a man's feelings, touch him first and gauge his reaction. The chosen one in love will gladly reciprocate with approval, tenderness. He received the green light, which means he is ready to cross that very line!

How to understand that he is in love

Often you girls tend to imagine things that don’t really exist. And when we talk about the signs of a guy in love, we touch on this a little more than directly. In general, this applies not only to girls, but since we are talking about you, then we will talk about you (oh, as I said!).

Although no, perhaps I hastened to compare you and me. Still, it is much easier to figure out a woman in this matter: a woman in love is ready to spend 24 hours a day next to her lover, and sincerely admire him the rest of the time. We are men, completely different. And our behavior is radically different. We are by nature more secretive (not all of us, of course, but the vast majority for sure). And in matters of love it is so special - what kind of knight will show with all his appearance that he floated from his skirt like snow from an oven.

So for the sake of understanding whether he is in love or not, today I will list the signs of a guy in love. But I don’t discourage you from using your grandmother’s old grandfather’s method: we pick off the petals of a chamomile and figure out whether you like it or not.

Other bright signals that indicate a man is in love

The gestures and facial expressions of a man in love, his eyes and postures are not all that can tell you about the feelings of a representative of the stronger sex. There are also subtle signs in non-verbal behavior that indicate a warm attitude towards a woman.

1. A guy in love subconsciously adopts the gestures, body position, breathing rate, and pace of conversation of the girl he likes. If you notice this emotional adjustment, then you are perceived as more than a friend.
2. Demonstration of your financial well-being. Show off your wrist with an expensive watch once again, carry a gold-plated pen with you, twirl the latest model phone in your hand, treat your team with expensive delicacies - this whole game is for you if you catch the above-mentioned signals in your direction. This is how males in love behave, saying: “Pay attention to me, you will not be disappointed, I will fulfill your desires.”
3. Unusual behavior. Illogical statements, embarrassment, excessive swagger, spontaneity, fussiness, increased activity, etc. If you have known a man for a long time, pay attention to whether he has changed or has always been like this.
4. A man in love always tries to impress the lady of his heart with masculine actions, so he often appears before our eyes. What you need? Borrow an umbrella, walk you home late at night, help you climb to the 8th floor, fix the printer, stand up for you with a colleague, listen to you, give good advice? The knight will always be in the right place at the right time!
5. The gait becomes more airy, flying, soaring. The pose is open, the head is raised. This is how a man demonstrates natural strength, agility, and grace.
6. The voice of a man in love betrays him completely. If he is self-confident, the timbre becomes lower than usual, hoarseness may be present, the pace of speech slows down, the voice sounds more courageous and mature. This speaks of lust. If the companion is unsure of himself, on the contrary, the voice will become beyond his control: the timbre will be higher than the real one, the speech will be confused, fast, monotonous.

Signs of male love

The male side of love differs from the female side of this noble feeling: if we women tend to sigh languidly, flirt and giggle when our beloved man appears, then the stronger sex shows its sympathies in a completely different way. Which one?

Behavior of a man in love

What does He do when he loses his head over one of Eve’s daughters, what does he say and how does a man in love behave?
The first thing that women often notice immediately changes in a man with a bewitched heart, but they do not always interpret it correctly is the behavior of men in love. Inspired by his love experiences, a man seems to turn into a teenager: he will boast to a woman of his achievements, ranging from significant victories (building a house, moving to another country for a well-paid job) and ending with simple, everyday achievements like going to the gym and driving grandmothers across the road.

But as soon as you are left alone with him, all attention will be switched from your own personality to the woman, her interests, desires and feelings. Such self-advertising should be taken for granted: a man wants to be liked, he wants reciprocal feelings

It’s another matter if self-promotion haunts you around the clock and in any environment - this is a sure sign that He is only interested in achieving a goal, and not always a romantic one.

We study male psychology:

• What kind of women do men like?
• How to understand that a man is in love?
• The man's gaze is eye to eye. What does this look mean?

If youthful behavior is not actively manifested, it’s time to pay attention to the gestures of a man in love: almost always his torso, knees and toes of shoes will be turned towards his beloved, and his eyes will look straight ahead. Widely spaced knees and hands lying palms up will tell about the openness of a man and his desire to be known

Speech in the presence of his beloved will become deeper and sweeter, his voice will become quieter, but the words of a man in love will tell even more: if a man asks questions about a woman’s comfort, her likes and interests, desires, asks if she is cold, then he is showing sincere interest and care.

Another important indicator of male love will be the gaze of a man in love: long and deep, more than 5-7 seconds. The gaze of a man who only wants to have fun runs over a woman’s body, and often stops not at all on her eyes, while the gaze of a lover, on the contrary, will be more restrained. You can determine by the look of a man whether he is in love, if you study several main signs of the look of men with a conquered heart:

• when talking, he looks only into the eyes of the woman he loves;
• when the lady of his heart appears, his pupils dilate, and when she speaks, the man opens his eyes wider than usual;
• a man in love will not avert his eyes and look at other girls within sight.

Knowing these signs, every woman will know how to tell by looking that a man is in love, and she certainly won’t be mistaken.

How to find out if he likes you, or the gestures of men

In addition to ordinary language, every person uses in communication a second, more ancient language - non-verbal - body language. In the animal world, there are vivid examples of male courtship language - they spread their tails, change their plumage, organize exhibition fights... People also use non-verbal language, but often do not pay attention to it and do not know how to understand it correctly. It is generally accepted that women, unlike men, have developed intuition, and therefore always feel if they like you. In essence, this “feeling” is the ability to capture and recognize the signals that a man’s body gives. If you don’t have this ability yet, don’t be upset, understanding body language can be learned, and no matter what exactly a man says (or is silent at all), you can find out from non-verbal manifestations how he feels. So, what postures and gestures will a man show you that he likes you?

Gestures of a man in love

This may not necessarily be love, but only its beginning. So, what body manifestations indicate sympathy and interest in you? If a man is turned towards you, his feet and knees are directed in your direction, this is a sure sign of his interest. The body itself can also be used as a barrier between you, if a man does not want to communicate (this needs to be checked, maybe he wants to, but is still afraid). The simplest way to use your body as a barrier is to turn your back to you, or turn half-turn. Often, a man can use foreign objects - a folder, laptop, backpack, etc. - as an obstacle between you and his body.

Gestures of a man in the hip area

Body poses that highlight the hip area are more sexual in nature. So, men can sit or stand with their legs spread wide apart, demonstrating their masculine strength, or taking a dominant, hanging position “above you”, resting their hands on their hips, tucking their fingers into the belt, again, emphasizing the genital area. Despite the fact that these poses carry information of a more sexual nature, they can also serve as compensation for a man’s feelings of internal insecurity, and speak of his desire to look more masculine, strong, and in a “dominant position.”

Our boundaries do not end with the boundaries of the body, but also include the space around us. The distance between you speaks about the nature of communication, and is divided into so-called. zones. Social zone (1.2 - 3 m) - for strangers, personal (46-120 cm) - for business, official dating, and intimate zone. In our culture, the zone of “intimate” contact, intended only for very personal communication, is 15-45 cm. A man who likes you will try to penetrate your intimate zone. He will either come too close to you, or begin to lean on the back of a chair or railing behind you - imitating the currently prohibited hug movement. He can give you his hand, thereby violating your boundaries, try to touch you by chance. (Depending on which side he extends his palm towards you, you will see whether he strives to take a commanding position in his relationship with you, or is completely open and trusts you (a sign of trust is open palms)).

Facial expressions of a man who likes you

Maximum emotions are revealed by the language of a man’s face, and especially by his gaze and eyes. The more time he looks at you, the more he likes you. At the same time, his pupils dilate (constriction of the pupils, on the contrary, indicates hostility, aggression), his head may be tilted to the side. His gaze is directed into your eyes and slides down, below the chin, to chest level - this is the so-called. intimate look (look at the forehead and to eye level - business, from the eyes to lip level - social, friendly). There is also a “flirting”, enticing sideways glance, while the eyebrows rise slightly upward and there is always a smile.

A smile on the face, by the way, can express different emotions, and not always positive ones. A symmetrical (the same on both sides) smile is considered sincere, which arises slowly and remains on the face for a long time; it speaks of openness and sympathy. If there is no smile on his face, then his lips are usually just relaxed. Any asymmetrical quick movements of the lips, nervous smiles, or pursing of the lips indicate that the man is experiencing discomfort. If he is busy with some thoughts of his own, he may run his tongue over his teeth, suck or curl his lips.

Gestures of a man who is embarrassed by you

But in the presence of you, a man experiences not only sympathy, interest or sexual attraction. Along with the desire to get closer to you, there is a fear of being rejected. The situation changes and he can alternately be overcome by many different emotions - uncertainty, anxiety, fear, tension, awkwardness, embarrassment, the desire to control, boasting, the desire to attract attention and even aggression. All these feelings are reflected in body language, even if a man tries to hide them from you (even if he himself is not fully aware of them).

10 tips if a man hides his feelings

Yes, despite obvious physical superiority, the stronger sex can turn out to be weak and even helpless in love.
Many men treat the manifestation of their feelings almost as exhibitionism and cannot force themselves to think differently.

What to do if a man has fallen in love and wants a woman, showing non-verbal and behavioral signs, but is trying to hide it?

1. If you have known this person for a long time, who suddenly changed before your eyes, try to talk to him, ask what is happening to him. He will understand that you see his condition and, perhaps, will decide to tell everything.
2. If you have known each other not long enough to start confidential conversations, show non-verbal signs of your sympathy and encourage him (if, of course, you need it).
3. Don't try to be ironic about his behavior. If he hides his feelings, it means he has a reason for it, and with your jokes you will distance yourself even more from him.
4. Do not send friends to him to find out his attitude towards you. He will immediately “see through” you and no one knows how he will regard you. Be more patient.
5. You shouldn't make him jealous either. Seeing his passion in the company of other men, a lover is unlikely to take this as a signal to action. Rather, on the contrary, he will see that his beloved is frivolous and accessible, and these are not the best qualities for a woman.
6. If you care about a person and you see in him the signs of a man in love, give these signs the opportunity to manifest themselves in the best possible way. Support him with your gaze, a friendly smile, encouragement of his actions, and he will become attached to you.
7. Let him talk about himself if he does it out of excitement when meeting you. Don't show that you are not interested, that you want entertainment, not conversation. Let him speak out. Perhaps this will give him the courage not to lose his composure in your presence.
8. If a man tries to hide his feelings to the point of completely ignoring you and even avoiding conversations, leave him alone. Apparently, he is not yet ready for a serious relationship with a woman, let him get ready.
9. What should you do if he shows all the signs of a man in love, but continues to “disguise” and persist, even despite your steps towards him? There are men for whom it is easier to love an image than a living person with all his natural manifestations and shortcomings. If he deifies you, nothing good will come of your union.
10. But what if he demonstratively hides his feelings, although you have clearly made it clear that you are also not indifferent to him? There can be two explanations here - either he has psychological disorders, or he expects you to pursue him. Try not to connect your fate with him if you don’t want to spend your whole life in.

Signs of a man in love: body language

Since the time when life appeared on planet Earth, representatives of the stronger half of humanity have been trying to win the love of their fair half. To earn the favor of these beautiful creatures, men are ready for any feat.

When it comes to love, women tend to show their cards. Men try to hide their feelings, which can lead to doubts about the validity of their feelings. And women are constantly lost trying to decipher their vague words and actions. Some obvious signs and gestures allow you to find out that a man is in love.

Sure signs of falling in love

1. Her happiness is his happiness. A man will do anything to make a girl smile or laugh. Seeing her happy, his heart lights up. After all, loving someone means having an emotional connection with them.

2. Eye contact. Eyes, as you know, cannot lie. If a man is in love, he cannot help but look at the object of his adoration.

3. He's not afraid to be himself. A man in love next to a woman is not tense and remains himself. He is not afraid to do stupid and strange things, so he trusts her.

4. Random surprises. A man will surprise the woman he is in love with. He can give flowers on a random day or leave sweets in a hidden place. This is how he impresses her.

5. He includes her in his plans. A man who loves a woman understands that “I” and “you” are now “we”. When he begins to plan his future, a woman is always present in these plans. He is not afraid of the prospect of living together for many years, he likes the relationship. When a person is really (and not just playing) “on the same wavelength” with you, then he is interested in a long-term relationship.

6. Spontaneous touch. A man is looking for a reason to touch the object of his love. He will randomly reach out at dinner, put his hand on her back and try in every possible way to be closer to the woman.

7. He prefers her company. If a man is not truly interested in a woman, he will not spend much time on her. He most likely spends his free time in the company of his friends, goes to the gym or goes fishing. Men almost never spend most of their free time on relationships that, from their own point of view, have no future.

How love is born

Before a man truly falls in love, he will first go through certain stages.

1. Assessment. When meeting a girl, a guy examines her appearance, determines the degree of attractiveness, and tries on the role of a partner for her. As you know, the first impression is formed by appearance.
2. The emergence of interest in a girl. There is a need for closer acquaintance and communication. There is an interest in getting to know the young lady better.
3. Attraction. At this stage, the young man begins to court his chosen one and looks at her reaction.
4. Impression. The guy is trying to show his best qualities, doing everything in order to make the best impression on the girl, to amaze her.
5. Belief. Feelings become stronger. The chosen one occupies all thoughts in my head and begins to dream. The guy realizes that he constantly thinks about the girl, cannot concentrate on other things, all thoughts are only about her.
6. Repeated persuasion. This stage is characterized by the understanding that the young lady was enchanted, and the idea of ​​a serious relationship is born.
7. Love. A serious romance begins, the feelings are very strong.

How to distinguish love from sympathy

The signs of falling in love, which I will very soon begin to list, can also be attributed to sympathy if you do not study the issue thoroughly. I studied it, multiplied it by my own experience, and here are the conclusions I came to:

Sympathy is more of a craving for the shell. A girl can be beautiful, sweet, funny. You can sincerely want it, but not to the detriment of yourself and your interests.

Falling in love is something deeper, more meaningful. The girl becomes the best, the most beautiful, the smartest and the most desirable. I want to spend more time together with a girl, sacrificing my own interests for her sake. When you're in love, your heart is pounding as if it's about to jump out of your chest, and butterflies are in full swing in your stomach.

Falling in love in its structure is closer to love. And what is love I wrote here.

Severely dilated pupils: medical reasons

Among other things, a man’s pupils may be dilated due to diseases and pathologies in the body:

• damage to the optic nerve;
• a brain tumor;
• aneurysm;
• high eye pressure, which provoked the development of glaucoma;
• frequent and prolonged migraines;
• swelling of the lymph node, which is located in the upper part of the chest;
• contusion;
• diabetes;
• oxygen starvation;
• traumatic brain injury;
• intracranial pressure;
• intoxication;
• epilepsy;
• presence of helminthic infestation.

There is a disease called Eydie-Holm syndrome, which is characterized by paralysis of the eye muscles, which leads to a lack of eye sensitivity to light.

The main symptom of this pathology is a dilated pupil. When a person looks at an object at close range, it narrows and then immediately expands. Vision in Eydie-Holmes syndrome is poor.

The disease can provoke:

• impaired metabolism;
• damage to the ciliary node;
• avitaminosis;
• infection.

With this pathology, the pupil can be dilated only in one eye.

If the optic nerves are damaged and the pupils lose sensitivity to light, the pupil may be permanently dilated. At the same time, when looking at the light, a person begins to experience pain in the eyes.

People who experience a similar symptom need to be extremely careful in the dark, since in the dark they completely lose the ability to see. You should not treat this symptom irresponsibly; you must consult a doctor and begin treatment before eye damage becomes irreversible.