What to pay attention to
The key to a strong relationship is the ability to remain calm in difficult situations. Since it is the woman who creates the mood in the house, and it is impossible to constantly live in the atmosphere of a Mexican TV series, it is better if she knows how to restrain her emotions. This does not mean that a woman should be sad or completely phlegmatic. But the ability to keep your emotions under control is a sign of a mature personality worthy of love.
One-sided love does not bring long-term joy. In addition, people need to trust each other in order to become closer. Therefore, it is better to connect life not just with the one you love. It is equally important that the feelings are mutual. If a girl is mostly focused on herself - on her appearance or her own pleasures, then it will be difficult for her to give away part of herself. And both must invest in the relationship, otherwise no one will be happy. And on the contrary, a loving woman wants to do something for her man; she is less irritated by his shortcomings. This makes living together much easier.
Of course, all this is possible only if the feelings are real and sincere. It is often very difficult to check this, especially since women themselves often cannot really understand their feelings. Does she like to take care of her man, what does she want to spend her energy and time on - all this shows who she really loves.
It is worth paying attention to a number of details. Firstly, is she ready to make concessions, or does she always want to insist on her own? Secondly, what is her relationship with her parents, does she respect them? How does she manage to resolve differences? Who does he consult with when making decisions?
Situations are different, but very often girls project the family they grew up in onto the relationships they create. Therefore, if she is not used to respecting her parents or has exclusively consumer expectations for them, you should not hope that she will treat her man differently.
Equally important is how a girl communicates with others.
If her mannerisms tend to be flirtatious with other men, such a relationship could turn into disaster. To prevent a naval battle from breaking out in a quiet harbor, it is worth learning more about the main cause of conflicts - the attitude towards money. Is she inclined to demand what she wants here and now, or does she know how to plan a budget and save? A sober look at this issue will allow you to avoid unnecessary waste of nerve cells.
Why can you love a girl? There are quite a lot of opinions on this matter
Women are always and everywhere successful. Men value them, protect them, love them and practically carry them in their arms. But this is understandable, because without girls life would be gray and boring. But some people have a question: why can you love a girl? The answer to it will depend, first of all, on who it is asked to. Due to the fact that men have different views on life, they can answer the question posed differently. Yes, and a lot depends on temperament and character.
Is beauty the determining factor in love?
For some, the main quality in a girl is beauty, which must be present. And we are talking about external beauty. But in this case, love may turn out to be simple sympathy. And not a deeper feeling, since beauty is a determining factor only at the very beginning of a relationship. And in the question of how to maintain a relationship with a girl, subsequently they no longer think about external beauty. In the event that there is nothing attractive about a girl other than her appearance, there can be no talk of preserving feelings and relationships. In addition, after some time, the girl's beauty may change. If we summarize all of the above, we can say that, in addition to external beauty, there must be other attractive qualities. You can also fall in love with her because she is interested in football or watches action movies.
How does soul kinship affect a wonderful feeling?
Some men, when answering the question of why one can love a girl, insist on the need for kinship of souls. Moreover, each man can put a different meaning into this concept. For some, the determining factor in the kinship of souls is common hobbies, for others it is the same views on certain things. Therefore, it is simply impossible to say anything definite about this matter, since it is unclear what is meant by kinship of souls in each specific case.
Is sexuality really that important?
For some men, the determining factor in the question of why a girl can be loved is her sexuality. This reason looks very dubious, since in modern conditions, for some reason, it is passionate women who remain single for a very long time.
And why do you still love a girl?
So, why can you love a girl? It is impossible to provide a definite answer to this question. It is impossible to formulate something that does not belong to rational things. It is very difficult at the moment to determine why men love the fair half of humanity. The main thing is that there is a feeling that can bring people a huge amount of positive emotions.
You just have to love and be loved!
Many, by the way, wonder how to test a girl for love. The answer to this question is simple - not at all. After all, if a girl loves, then there will be no doubt about it, since girls surrender to this feeling completely, without being distracted by any extraneous life situations. Therefore, just love your girlfriend and receive this feeling in return. Happiness to you in your personal life and success on other fronts of life!
What makes a relationship happy
Of course, you want your beloved to be kind, gentle, moderately modest, and at the same time relaxed. However, every person has flaws. And even if they are not immediately visible, they will definitely appear, it’s a matter of time.
At the same time, it is important for every man to decide for himself what exactly is important to him, for the sake of which he will be ready to ignore shortcomings and treat them condescendingly.
People's temperaments differ, so what suits one man well may not suit another.
Economic and sexual - as a rule, these two requirements for men come first. But, in addition to this, interpersonal relationships are also needed, which means that you need to talk about something with a woman. Therefore, it is good if she has her own interests and hobbies that unite her with a man, her opinion on important issues. So, by combining warm communication with the desired advantages and taking into account the inevitable disadvantages, you can get the desired comfort, warmth and relationships that make you happy.
Love, Ryazan
How to love a girl who loves you if you have doubts?
Love at first sight is the ultimate dream of every person on the planet; in practice, relationships often begin completely differently, and even disgust and sincere hostility can sharply develop into incredible affection.
The question of how to love a girl who loves you often worries guys who are just starting out.
relationship and are not entirely sure that they are ready to spend a significant part
your personal time with a new person. It is not uncommon for a problem of a different nature to arise.
- how to love a girl you don’t love, such thoughts worry young people who want
receive certain privileges, but at the same time, not cause mental trauma
girl. Sometimes these thoughts come to guys who agree to wait
a certain time, but in the end have a strong and, most importantly, mutual relationship,
based on sincerity and understanding. And similar doubts plague those who
became a victim of the stereotype that if the spark of love does not ignite
immediately, then you shouldn’t torture yourself and your other half, nothing good will come from it
will come out. Thoughts that seem correct, but are completely wrong, because
lovers confuse love with passion, which arises precisely in the first hours
acquaintance. It takes years to grow the fruit of true love,
effort and ability to negotiate, appreciate your partner and believe in him.
That is why
the answer to the question of how to fall in love with a girl if there is no attraction in the first days
after meeting no, he will be next - do not confuse passion with love, try
get to know a person better, find common hobbies and common ground. Especially
These tips are relevant if the guy sees that the girl is definitely
is interested in continuing the relationship and is happy to devote the young man
a person in the details of his life. Interest on the part of the lady indicates that the couple has
there may be a future together because, as a rule, girls are not ready to spend their
time for those for whom the heart does not lie, they are guided by unsound arguments,
but by intuition and one’s own insight.
Concerning
guys, they tend to see first of all the pragmatic part of the relationship and with
willingly accept the fact that relationships will not always be so
rosy, just like in the first weeks after we met. That's why they're worried
thoughts that if there is no spark now, then what will happen next when it comes
routine, partners will get used to each other and everyday life will become an unchanged part
relationships. Many people begin to panic at the thought that the girl will be part of
his life, she will be constantly present, trying to control him
personal space, change established habits and desire what the guy is not into
able to give it to her. However, if even the slightest shadow of doubt arises, it is necessary
whether to maintain a relationship, then it is undoubtedly worth every chance
become perfect.
As for
specific advice on how to love a girl if at the moment
the guy doesn’t feel anything for her, then the main and main recommendation would be
the next one is to spend as much time as possible together, at the beginning of a relationship you can
and with mutual friends, this will provide an opportunity to discreetly observe
companion. Then you can move on to dating, but there is no need to rush and
it is important to replace the word date itself with softer equivalents with good
a thoughtful reason for a meeting. Don't try to buy a girl with expensive prices
gifts or the luxury of restaurants inaccessible to her, on her part it will be
be regarded as an attempt to humiliate and show her failure, that
will invariably lead to a break in the relationship. However, modest gifts in the form of flowers,
sweets or cinema tickets are quite acceptable and even welcomed by ladies,
the same can be said about dinner at an inexpensive cafe, pizzeria or purchasing
cups of coffee or hot tea in the cool season. It was after joint
walks alone in a park or square, when there is an opportunity to socialize
calm atmosphere, discuss common interests or express your own
point of view regarding current topics, and an attraction arises, which becomes
the first step to sincere love.
If a guy doubts whether to start a relationship with a girl to whom he currently has no attraction, then this indicates his interest in the lady, but the absence of momentary attraction, which is often mistaken for love. The best way to start a relationship in this case is joint meetings with friends, during which the guy will have the opportunity to take a better look at his potential chosen one.
How to behave if I fell in love with a guy?
Fell in love with a guy?
Don’t know what to do with your Love and how to behave?
Options
- Tell him about it. Share, open up, don't be afraid. Whatever he answers, the most important thing is that you told him the truth. You can say confession anywhere: in a cafe, on the street, on a bus, at bus stops, on the subway, at home, at his house, at a disco…. Confess where you feel most comfortable. You will feel the comfort in your heart.
- Tell your friends. They will definitely advise you on what to do next.
So that you are ready for anything - read what they can say or what could happen?
- Wait until he admits it himself. If he doesn’t do this, ignore him so as not to suffer. Guys don't deserve girls to suffer.
- Did you fall in love with a guy? Well, you “give” girlfriend! Drive away everything you feel and live for yourself. So - easier, simpler, more reliable. There is nothing good in love.
- If you say that you love him, he will take advantage of the situation, hinting at an intimate relationship. Do you need this? Yes - go and confess.
- Love is beautiful. And be glad that you were given the opportunity to feel it. It doesn’t really matter whether it’s reciprocated or not. What's more important is your feelings. You can love without reciprocity.
- Fell in love? What to do? - It will pass. You don't know what he feels for you. And you love him, you love... What if it’s in vain? Unpleasant.
- Write about your love to him in a message on his mobile phone. Put all of yourself into recognition, everything that lives inside you.
- Confess on the Internet. Surely you have his page (or pages). Wait for an answer. He must come.
- Don't tell him anything, but communicate with him more often. Just... as a friend. Support, help, advise.
- Invite him to the movies to have a good time. He won't refuse you if you mean something to him.
- Agree to be a witness at the wedding where he is a witness. Perhaps a beautiful “event” will bring you closer together.
- If you have common company, be closer to him, don’t be shy. Sit next to him, be nearby, without losing sight of him.
- Get the job where he works. You will have a chance to communicate with him more. If, of course, they hire girls to take his place of work.
- Find out from him or from your friends what your loved one is interested in. Take an interest in his “hobbies.” If you find it, you will know what to discuss with him.
- You don't have to say anything. Wait. To understand how he treats you. And you will understand by watching his actions. You will see everything.
- If he studies at your school, accidentally run into him in the corridors. You can read what he feels in his eyes and in his actions.
- Are you embarrassed to admit it, but want to? Write whatever you want in a diary or on a piece of paper. It will become much easier for you.
Declarations of love to a girl
You are my gift from fate, the sweetest in the world. In those moments when you rejoice, I feel happy. 16
I want to always be by your side! I am ready to please you every day! Be 100% confident in me, I only need you! 15
My favorite kitten, I love you madly! I will give everything for you, you are the whole world to me, you are my life, I am happy with you. I value our relationship and value you, I want you and I to always be together, without being separated for a moment, my sunshine. I love you! 14
I want to confess to you, I love you madly, You warm my soul, With you I’m like in a beautiful dream! 18
My girl, I feel for you an incredibly great and truly wonderful feeling, without which a person cannot live, but simply exists - this is love. You are everything to me and even more - you are the one for whom I live. I love you and will always love you! eleven
You look like a ray of sunshine in the spring sky, like a delicate fragrant flower in the grass, like a tremulous singing bird in the trees... You are beautiful! My feelings for you are the strongest in the world! 12
I am the happiest person on earth because I met you, my beloved. You have become the most important person on earth for me. Every day I fall in love with you more and more, every minute spent with you is like a reward for me. 16
You are the sweetest girl in the world. You are a princess, you are a dream come true. Always be joyful, smile, be content! I love you and my heart sings with happiness at the thought of you! 13
I love you very much, with soul, heart, body and every cell. For me, you are the most desirable in the world! 12
You are the best in the world, you captivated me from the first meeting. I want to shout about my love so that you never feel sad. I love you, and my heart skips a beat at the thought of you, dear! 12
With you I become a completely different person. I loved you for who you are. And I will always love you. You are my wealth, my joy, my happiness. 15
You are an inspiration to me. I am glad that I have such happiness as you! 16
I want to always be with you, I want to give you the best moments of life. I love you very much and I want you to smile more often and be happy. Your smile illuminates everything around with joy and makes the sun shine even brighter! 12
I want to love you all my life, create only for you alone. You are perfection, my ideal, I have been looking for someone like you for a long time! 12
I love you madly and I have no doubt about my feelings! I value you very much. You are the most dear person to me in this world! 13
I am happy that now I am next to you, that I love you, and I want to be with you until the end of my days. You have become the meaning of my life, I love you very much. I have never experienced such a feeling. I enjoy every moment spent with you. 12
You won my heart, I am happy that you exist, and my feelings have no limits. When I see you, I don't need anything else. Even on the days when I don’t see you, I’m still happy because I know that we will meet again. I love you more than anything in the world! 16
I feel for you what I have never felt for anyone. I feel love and hope it will always be with us! 10
My dear, the best girl on Earth! My acquaintance with you is the best thing that has happened to me recently, I am grateful to fate that I met you. I can’t imagine how I would live without knowing you. I love you. eleven
You are my star in the night! My sun in the morning! Everything will be great ahead! I love you madly! 12
I believe that you are my destiny, I love you. I want our relationship to become stronger and stronger. I want to admit that I love you, my beauty! 12
You became the meaning of my life, I never thought it was possible to love so much. Since we met, I can’t live a day without you, my most beautiful girl in the world! You are perfect and unique! 12
Love is a feeling that inspired the greatest guys of the past and present to perform true feats. And in the future, probably not enough will change! Why can you adore a lady so much that you literally “move mountains”?
Everyone knows Pushkin’s poems dedicated to Anna Kern, and the songs of Jim Morrison (a Doors favorite), which he dedicated to his friend Pamela Courson. More famous are the statues of Rodin, the creation of which was inspired by Camille Claudel. What about the paintings of Salvador Dali? Most of them simply would not have existed if Gala had not appeared in his life. What was so special about these women? Why can you adore a lady with such strength? Or maybe these girls and ladies were the most ordinary? But men knew how to find something special in them? Most likely, no one will be able to answer these questions. And these days, a huge number of boys, men and guys ask themselves the same question: “Why can you adore a lady?” Let's try to answer! We most likely will not determine the truth. But why not try it?
Someone says that he loves his lady for her beauty. But this is probably not love, but simply sympathy, desire. Beauty can bewitch at first, when feelings are “seething”. But then beauty can be a pleasant addition to other features of the “lady of the heart”. But girls, nevertheless, strive to be beautiful, at all costs. With all this, by beauty they often understand similarity with models and film actresses. But a guy may find the most beautiful thing that a woman does not consider “highlight” at all. For example, an upturned nose or a dimple on the cheek.
Some say, answering the question of why one can adore a lady, that the reason for their love is the kinship of souls. And now this is closer to the truth. True, everyone puts different meanings into the concept of “soul kinship”. For some, these are common interests. For others, it is faith in each other and the desire to support each other in joy and sorrow.
Someone will call her sexuality a prerequisite for loving a girl. But this, most likely, is not the main thing either. After all, how many gorgeously sexy ladies remain alone?
But if all the above prerequisites are not real, then why can you adore a lady in essence?
Yes, for sure, not for anything in particular. After all, love is a completely irrational feeling. And, probably, it is not in vain that they say that if a person knows why he loves, then it is not love, but something completely different.
In fact, what difference does it make why you love your lady and why she loves you? The main thing is that there are feelings!
But here many guys are overcome by a new question: “How to test a lady for love?” In particular, this question often worries those guys who, for whatever reason, hesitate in the sincerity of their chosen one’s emotions. Some of them think that they “adore” his money or position in society. And some are simply pathologically unsure of themselves. What should you do in this situation?
You can arrange checks by sending your own friends to the girl with advances, or by hiring a personal detective who will study her entire life. Or you can just calm down. And understand yourself and your relationships. In fact, if your beloved takes care of you when you are sick, is interested in your views (not just for show, but for real) and listens to it, is interested in your current values and strives to spend as much time with you as possible - her feelings , most likely true. Why, unnecessary checks on your part can simply offend her to the core. And force you to doubt whether she needs to do business with you specifically.
Then another question will bother you: “How to maintain business with a woman?” And here there will be no time for checks! But an offended woman may not forgive checks that are humiliating for her!
Love each other and enjoy every moment spent together! And life will put everything in its place!
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