How to hint a kiss to a guy at 13 years old

How to subtly hint to a pen pal that I like him

Correspondence is a great way to meet the opposite sex, show yourself and win the sympathy of the guy you like. In virtual communication, we don’t worry about the blush filling our cheeks, awkward pauses, a trembling voice, etc. In the end, even if a guy doesn’t reciprocate in response to hints of sympathy, it’s much easier to endure a refusal on a computer than with visual contact .

So, let's study the main stages of correspondence: how to properly hint to a guy that you like him!

How to hint to a stranger about your crush via correspondence

It’s easier with unfamiliar guys: I saw, appreciated, wrote, and then look at the circumstances. The main thing is to act step by step!

Find common ground

In order for a guy to make contact with an unfamiliar girl, he needs to make it clear that you have something in common. First, study his profile: what music he listens to, where he has vacationed, what establishments he visits, whether he has pets, whose quotes he follows, whether he has a large family, etc. The social page is a storehouse of information for getting to know each other.

Next, clean up your own profile: add the same songs to the playlist, remove dubious photos, add intellectual humor to the page, pictures from different countries (if the guy you like travels a lot). Ready? Now you can move on to the dialogue!

Be confident

Even if a girl is used to (or believes it is correct) that only men take the initiative, she should not be afraid to express herself. To show your confidence, start a conversation with the guy you like first. Believe me, the young man will be impressed and pleasantly surprised by the attention to his person.

Firstly, active girls are more in demand among guys, so communication with you will be a priority. Secondly, the girl personally develops a useful skill for taking the situation under her own control. It’s much better to choose from those you like rather than from those who took the initiative towards you, agree!

You can immediately write to the guy that you like him: “I couldn’t pass by such a handsome man: your dimples on your cheeks are charming (the look hypnotizes, beckons, makes you forget about everything).” Or you can go in a roundabout way and use the information you studied earlier: “Hello, wasn’t it you I saw a week ago at the Bi-2 concert?” “What do you think about the ending of S. King’s latest thriller?” “Hello, we don’t know each other, but I’m already in love with your taste and sense of style. I see that you have been to France, please recommend some exciting sights.”

Remember that nothing bad is happening: the guy responded, continued the correspondence - great! Offer friendship to a cute boy, hinting at a desire to continue your communication. Ignores or answers dryly, reluctantly, impudently - continue searching for a worthy candidate for your heart.

Feel the difference between activity and intrusiveness: if a girl has to start a conversation first every time, it’s time to stop such communication. If a guy needs it, he will find an opportunity to get in touch!

Give a compliment

It’s better to hint to a guy about your sympathy in a playful, unobtrusive way. You can note his appearance (“Are guys with such breathtaking looks also great conversationalists?”), but it is better to highlight his individual character trait/action/peculiarity.

Examples of “working” messages:

“oh, these eyelashes have deprived me of sleep”;
“with such sensual and long fingers, a man is obliged to play the piano”;
“Are you involved in volunteering (extreme sports, culinary activities)? I'm captivated by you";
“in this photo you look like a wild animal: powerful muscles, a focused look, a graceful back...”;
“oh, is it legal for a guy to have cheekbones like that?”;
“I feel as relaxed as possible next to you”;
“only people with big hearts help animals”;
“How long have you been winning girls’ hearts?”

And everything like that. The main thing is to find the right word that characterizes the guy you like.

If a girl got the phone number of a guy she likes, you can intrigue him with an incomprehensible SMS. Write the address and time of the meeting (film title and show time) with an interesting caption. For example: “Meet on Sovetskaya under the thermometer at 19-00. Don’t be late, otherwise I’ll eat.” Or “Curse of the Lake, 6:30 p.m. If you take a diaper for yourself, take me too.” When the guy reacts to an unfamiliar message, tell him you made a mistake. But be sure to add: “If you are nice (brave), you can also come to the movie.” This usually works flawlessly!

Or on VKontakte, without further ado, send a catchy emoticon (avoid hearts, kisses and hugs). If he answers, start communicating; if he doesn’t, you’ll think that the girl made a mistake with the sender.

Prepare in advance

Before you kiss your boyfriend, you need to do a little preparation first. Look in the mirror and ask yourself: do you want to kiss your lips? Dry and cracked? If so, it's time to prepare them for the big moment. Use a good lip balm for this, but nothing shiny or sticky. Wearing bright lipstick will undoubtedly make your lips more attractive, but think about the marks on your partner's face... Is that attractive?

His favorite kisses are short and spontaneous. Because concentration is not his most valuable quality, long kisses disoriented him. But the mouth is not his favorite place. As outstanding nonconformists, they always protest against traditions. If this happens, they feel uncomfortable. Therefore, to experience real Sagittarius kisses, it is better to be in a secluded place.

Earth Forget about the “heart ticket” image. An “earthly” man needs a purposeful woman, a good housewife. They enjoy every kiss as if it were their last life. They don't stop until they have fun. In this regard, Taurus is a true professional who really likes to do a lot of things, but very well. for an indefinite period of the patient, Taurus representatives always hope that kissing and their sexual relationship will be satisfactory.

How to hint to a guy about your feelings in correspondence if you have known each other for a long time

But when you already know each other, hinting to a guy about your sympathy becomes morally more difficult, but theoretically much easier. On the one hand, you know perfectly well his hobbies, strengths and weaknesses, taste, so you don’t need to invent anything here. But on the other hand, opening your soul to a guy you know without 100% confidence in reciprocal feelings is a risk, because in the event of his refusal (even the mildest), you will both feel awkward.

But let’s put aside all fears and act slowly and carefully! So, how can you hint to a guy that you like him via text if you are communicating?

If you're in the same class, it's easy! “Is it just me, or was Valentina Yurievna on a roll today in class?”, “Did you owe something to our class teacher, that she glared at you today?”, “Have you already done your laboratory work? Let Vadim excuse me, but I’ll be sitting with you in physics tomorrow!”, “I can’t get out of my head your performance at recess today: Monsieur, you were great!” Such unobtrusive messages will also show your classmate’s attitude towards you. If a guy’s sympathy is mutual, he will gladly pick up jokes, willingly answer questions, and develop a dialogue.

Dig deeper into the guy’s favorite hobbies: “Hey, you have a Labrador, right? Tell us a little about the pros and cons of big dogs, otherwise we are planning to get ourselves another family member,” “Are you also a fan of Zenit? We’ll be sick together tomorrow,” “What do you like about geometry? Maybe you can share the secrets of this science with me?” People like to communicate on topics in which they are well versed, which means that a girl will definitely be able to catch the interest of her interlocutor in this way!

If you are friends and communicate quite easily, tease the guy, challenge him. “I remember someone bragging about their cooking skills? Well, well, I’m looking forward to a culinary masterpiece this weekend,” “I heard you’re going to a friendly football match tomorrow? Don’t break anything for yourself this time,” “Come to the yard today with a guitar, let’s check out the talent!” Men like to take a challenge from a pretty girl, but be careful about the edge. It should be witty, funny and harmless. To do this, you need to know his sore spots and evaluate in advance the sense of humor of the guy you like.

Thank the young man. Write in correspondence: “Today you stood up for Vova in the yard, it was very wise! My respect!”, “Thank you for driving that dog away from the entrance”, “Please accept my gratitude for today’s compliment addressed to me (for missing in line, delivering a package, removing a bug from a T-shirt).”

If you realize that a guy you have a crush on doesn't like you, harmless requests for help will be reasons to hint about your feelings. “I’m writing to you as the most intelligent boxer in our area: help my younger brother choose a pear,” “I remember you changed the glass on your phone, I have the same problem. Give me the master’s number”, “How do you pass that obstacle in the game? It seems like my buttons are going to fall off!”

Main rules in correspondence

How to competently correspond with a guy you like via VK, SMS and other messengers:

always remain yourself (it’s stupid for a kind and sensual girl to try to seem like a tough, vulgar, cynical bitch);
always write correctly (but do not correct your interlocutor’s mistakes);
stop if the guy is silent (it is acceptable to leave 2-3 SMS without a response);
don’t get carried away with emoticons, exclamation/question marks/cards/gifs/gifts (guys view such girls as aggressive or too intrusive);
avoid long texts;
forget about such nonsense as: “Where did you go?”, “I’m already starting to worry,” “You don’t like me anymore?”, “Are you ignoring me?”;
no diminutive nicknames at the dating stage;
be correct, choose the words in your correspondence (don’t joke about your first name, last name, appearance, family);
refrain from aggressive, vulgar, plaintive statements, do not create scenes of jealousy, do not deny sympathy if the guy openly expresses his to you.

Remember the golden rule of correspondence: never send your “spicy” photos. Believe me, the moment will come when you will regret it!

If you want to write to a boy that you like him, write! Believe me, many novels began with correspondence! Of course, if you want to confess your sympathy to a guy with whom you live in the same house or study at the same school, it is better to feel out his attitude towards you in advance, so as not to hide your eyes later from awkwardness. In any case, know that there is nothing wrong with this! Sometimes it’s better to do something and regret it than to regret something you never tried to do!

How to find out a man's attitude towards you

How to correctly hint to a guy that you like him? In order not to get into trouble, it is first better to find out how he himself treats you. One of the surest ways is to invite him for a walk. If he feels sympathy for you, he will happily accept the offer. You can also ask your friend to find out how he treats you from his friends. Or meet his relatives - sister, brother or even mother. If he listens to their opinion, he will definitely pay attention to you.

Here are some more useful tips that will help you find out his attitude towards you:

A few important rules when communicating with men

No friendship! If you want a relationship with the guy you like, never become his girlfriend. Try to minimize conversations about other girls, do not give advice in love affairs.
Touching. When a guy is telling something or joking, you can touch his shoulder or arm. You can also touch his hand goodbye. This will clearly let him know that you are interested in him.
Move closer to him easily and naturally. Best during conversation. This will make it clear that you are interested in listening and want to become closer to this person.
Play with your hair. You can easily twirl the ends of your hair around your fingers. It's also very sexy to throw your hair over your shoulders, especially if you have long hair.

Create an intimate atmosphere

Make the guy feel that the world will stop moving without you, that you are meant for him. Try to bring him closer to you by lightly touching him during a conversation. You don't need to do anything supernatural, just put your hand on your leg. Gently stroke his hand, fingers, or face, but don't linger. This way, he will feel your desire and take a step himself, thinking that the initiative comes from him.

Air You can intrigue him with fascinating conversation and intelligence and surprise him with unconventional views on things. Loves to kiss and is very fun. Sometimes, however, his own impatience is an obstacle to achieving the desired success. He is too busy searching for different positions and compiling new technologies. This doesn't allow him to relax enough and his partner notices him. You know, because then Geminis don't kiss tenderly and lovingly.

Be careful not to forget yourself in his arms. Libra is such a smoothie that he may kiss you only out of a desire not to be neglected. Or stop kissing you if it might hurt someone else. For Aquarius, light kisses on the lips are pure evidence of friendship. This is why we rarely see him kiss a member of the same sex without it being interpreted as homosexuality. The fact that he doesn't pay much attention to regular kissing means that he doesn't excite or provoke.

How to behave correctly so that he understands that you like him

In order to interest a man, look for common interests. If a guy is interested in something, try to share his passion. For example, if he plays the guitar, you can ask him to teach you to play too. If he is fond of reading, ask him to read a book that he supposedly had been looking for for a long time and could not find anywhere. And so on, there are very, very many options.

Always be open to communication. Talk about yourself, your interests, hobbies, and also be interested in his life. This way he will understand that you want to get to know him better.

A man will be pleased if you laugh at his jokes. But unnatural laughter is always noticeable, so don’t force your giggles out, laugh sincerely and from the heart.

Praise the guy you like. Compliments, especially sincere ones, are always pleasant and evoke positive emotions. We talked about how to compliment a man correctly in a separate article.

Try to always be in a good mood. Men love cheerful and cheerful girls. A smile is pleasant for everyone; it encourages openness and communication. The guy should be as comfortable as possible in your company.

How to hint to a guy that you like him in correspondence

This option will be ideal for shy girls. But it also has disadvantages. The main ones are that we do not see the interlocutor, there is no eye contact.

So, start the conversation with some unrelated topic. You can ask about his plans for the weekend or even for the summer. The main thing is that the question requires a detailed answer. Well, then we act according to the situation. You can unobtrusively hint about your sympathy. If he doesn't have plans for the evening, invite him to join you.

Here's another useful video on how to interest a pen pal:

If a guy doesn't take hints

If the guy does not understand the hints, and all the above methods did not help, you can use a woman’s cunning. In a group, let one of your friends “accidentally” let it slip that you like this guy. Even if something goes wrong and your relationship doesn’t work out, you can always say that these are just your friend’s fantasies and nothing more.

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If you see a guy's sympathy for you, but he is very shy, you can take the initiative into your own hands. Tell him directly that you like him and you are looking for something more than friendship. This method significantly speeds up the development of relationships, but at the same time kills romance. Sometimes it’s better to wait until the relationship develops as usual.

In the event that hints do not work on your chosen one, you can take the initiative into your own hands and admit your sympathy first.

And, of course, develop the qualities that men value. Then you can become the girl that all men like.

Preliminary preparation

If the relationship is approaching the first kiss, it means you are already familiar enough, know each other well. This is, in principle, a priori. You should not take this step if you feel doubts or are not confident in your partner. Still, this is the first kiss, and I would like to remember it for many years to come, as one of the most pleasant moments in life.

So, in order to get maximum pleasure, you can prepare in advance.

apply beautiful makeup;

choose a chic outfit;

use the best perfume;

To be sure, you can freshen your breath.

Perhaps your amazing appearance will shock the guy and call for long-awaited action. Just remember!

Beautiful makeup is light and almost invisible; it should not dominate.

A chic outfit doesn't have to be vulgar. You shouldn't look approachable (a common mistake young girls make).

The best perfume shouldn't smell from you three kilometers away. A light, delicate train is important.

Then go ahead! Leave the embarrassment, don’t miss the developing situation, show your charming abilities and kiss for good health! But such cases, in fact, do not happen often in life.

The most common mistakes

Try not to worry. And if you’re still worried, don’t show it.
Gestures should be smooth, avoid sudden movements.
Avoid parasitic words , because ill-mannered girls attract few people.
If you decide to directly admit your feelings, don't laugh . Otherwise, the guy will doubt the sincerity of your words.

And most importantly, don’t get hysterical or panic if the guy doesn’t react the way you expected. Nothing wrong with that. At least you have done everything that depends on you, and you will not languish in anticipation and uncertainty. Moreover, you can always turn a confession into a joke.

Correct behavior

A young man may not decide to develop a relationship because he is not confident in his abilities or in your reaction.

Help the young man - show him that you really like him:

flirt;
look into the eyes when speaking;
smile;
give nice compliments;
laugh at his jokes and be interested in what he says.

It is important that the atmosphere around your relationship is very warm and cozy. If a young man feels good next to you, he will quickly decide to have his first kiss.

Method No. 1. Use the magical power of your eyes

A girl's eyes are a powerful weapon. With the right approach, they will win the heart of even the most sophisticated young man. Sometimes a gaze is enough instead of a thousand words and hints.
It is important to observe moderation in everything, otherwise the young man will consider you too intrusive and will be afraid. Avoid looking from under your brows, otherwise the guy will think that you are looking at him with contempt.
What to do in such a situation? Find a suitable time when you will be alone with your gentleman. Strangers or friends should not interfere with an important moment.
Talk to the boy, react to his jokes, smile sweetly and laugh. After a certain time, when mutual understanding and connection appear between you, sit in silence for a while, look at his lips.
Then look up to your eyes, and then back to your lips. Keep it up. Perhaps the young man will not understand the hint right away. Be persistent, but not annoying.
A good option would be to look from under lowered eyelashes during your conversation with him. Be flirtatious, but not provocative. Try to seem nice. The girl must be a mystery.

Touch

They work better than flirting, smiles and hints. Men are specific creatures, so if you want to show that you like him:

gently hold his hand while walking or talking;
straighten his bangs, touch his cheek;
put your hands on your shoulders, lightly stroke your neck;
rest your head on his shoulder in the cinema while watching a movie;
run the back of your hand over the young man's arm.

Touches not only speak about your love - they destroy the psychological barrier, indicate that you allow a person into your personal space and trust him. Intimacy born of touch will inevitably end in kisses.

Look into the young man's eyes for a couple of seconds, enough to distinguish their color. Move your gaze to your lips and look back into your eyes.

A gentle look and a smile will give your partner confidence and stimulate him to take the next step.

At the right moment, try to attract his attention to your lips:

run your index finger over your half-open lips;
lightly bite your lower lip;
touch the hollow between your upper lip and nose with your finger.

Method No. 2. Focus on your lips

It is known that lips are the instrument for kissing. Make sure that this part of the face is always in well-groomed condition. Guys divide girls into several types. One of the types is the person you want to kiss. Constantly. Be like that.
If it's hot outside, carry a moisturizing balm with you to prevent your lips from drying out. In windy and frosty weather, nourish your sponges with cream or hygienic lipstick.
It should be borne in mind that guys do not like girls with provocative makeup. Before kissing, do not paint your lips too brightly. It is better to use a colorless, non-sticky gloss. If possible, avoid makeup altogether.
To make a man want to kiss you, use some tricks. Touch your lips with your fingers while making your gaze thoughtful. Lightly bite your lower lip or lick it casually.
Don't forget about the guy's lips. Throughout the conversation, systematically look at them, then move your gaze to their eyes. The young man will understand your hints and want to kiss you.
Remember, when performing such manipulations you should look as natural as possible. For some ladies, biting and licking looks very vulgar. Practice in front of a mirror first.

Confidence

Try to give confidence to the young man that for you he is the most beautiful, the strongest, the best young man in the world. This will raise your self-esteem - and the guy will decide to kiss you.

How can you instill confidence in him through actions and words?

Ask him to help you - lift a heavy thing, help carry a bag, open a can or bottle. Thank him for his help, while emphasizing the masculinity, strength and irreplaceability of the young man.
Give compliments - praise his physical form, mention the beauty of his eyes or hair. If a guy comes on a date wearing a new shirt or sweater, be sure to note this by stroking the guy’s arm or shoulder through the fabric.

Initiative coming from a girl

It is believed that it is the young man who must take the first step - invite him on a date, kiss him, make a marriage proposal.
If your idea of a relationship is based on tradition, it is better to wait until the guy himself wants to kiss you, hinting and encouraging him.

If you like to take the initiative in a relationship, kiss the guy first when he can’t make up his mind. Or directly ask him for a kiss, whispering what you want in the young man’s ear at the right moment.

Advice from psychologists for girls who hint to boys about developing relationships:

Do not use too bright lipstick or a thick layer of gloss.
Make sure that your sympathy is mutual and the young man is not dating anyone else.
If a young man is categorically not ready for kisses, do not insist.

With a long lack of attention from the young man and his indecisiveness, think about whether you will have to continue to take the initiative in resolving all issues? Excessive persistence can do a disservice and for some time lead you to a person who is not really yours.

Choosing a meeting place

If you plan to push a young man to develop a relationship, the choice of place for a date plays a big role.

The best place for a first kiss is a cinema.

Choose a romantic comedy or any movie where there is a relationship between lovers. During the session, take the young man by the hand, lightly touch his shoulder or hair from time to time.

Before an important session, do not buy popcorn - bad breath and crumbs can greatly blur the first impression of a kiss.

It’s better to take candy or chewing gum with you - the pleasant smell and chocolate crumbs on the lips can make a young man naturally want to kiss you.

A walk in the park is a good way to plan your first kiss, especially in the fall. To warm up your cold hands, a young man can start by kissing your wrists, naturally moving to the lips.

A very bad place would be concerts, going to a theater or an exhibition - any place where there is light or a lot of strangers.

Variety of kisses

If you and the guy already know each other well enough, and you have a strong romantic relationship, you can try to diversify the first kiss (however, you can do this with any kiss, there’s definitely no harm). Transfer it from a gentle to a more intimate version. There are several options:

Sweet kiss, smear some berry on your lips. This will pleasantly surprise your fan and he will want to taste the taste.

Invite him to your place, put on a suitable film with similar scenes and offer to repeat them. He must like this.

Offer to play something if you wish. In any case, you will find out his wish or be able to make your own kiss.

Try flirting with him with your tongue - he should like it and want to continue.

In fact, there are a lot of options. But there are two taboos:

try to avoid touching your teeth to his lips;
and don't suck in the poor young man.

And smile. A smile makes a gloomy day brighter, it defuses any situation, people feel comfortable.