A letter to a man to make him think about losing me.

Men, like women, love when people pay attention to them and emphasize their strengths. Pleasant words to your beloved man are not a convention, but a necessity. This is the only way to build long-term relationships based on trust and mutual respect.

By choosing words of love in prose, a woman shows that she is not indifferent to a man and she is ready to spend her time to choose kind and warm words for him. Only in your own words can you convey the depth of affection, love and respect for your partner.

What to write to a guy to make him feel good.

Pleasant words to your beloved man. “I miss you” in my own words

If you don’t have the determination to say pleasant words to your beloved man personally, then why not send your chosen one an SMS “I miss you” in your own words and beautifully express what has long accumulated in your heart.

How to show feelings at a distance?

Truly happy and successful relationships can only be built when both partners do not hesitate to express the feelings and emotions they experience towards each other. If you are stingy with expressions of feelings, then a man may think that he is not good enough for you. And the distance that separates you is not at all an excuse for callousness. In the modern world there are a huge number of opportunities to contact a person who is on the other side of the planet in a matter of seconds.

To write a nice message to a guy, you don’t have to have any knowledge in the field of psychology or be a master in relationships. It will be enough to express everything you feel in a letter. To do this, try to remember the happiest moments that you experienced together. Why were you in seventh heaven? Perhaps it's all about the young man's sexy voice or his expression of concern? Be that as it may, just try to remember some moment from the past, and then those feelings will return to you that will allow you to express your emotions in words.

However, if you still do not understand the process of expressing feelings in words, you can use special templates that will be given in the following sections. Just add your lover’s name or affectionate nickname to them - and that’s it, a warm and gentle message for your loved one is ready. You can also add something of your own to any phrase that will talk about your feelings for the guy.

Nice words to your beloved man in prose, in your own words

Even if prose is not as sonorous as poetry, but pleasant SMS for a beloved man, written in your own words, is no worse than a rhymed letter from Eugene Onegin to Tatyana Larina.

There is no man in the world more attractive to me than the one who reads this SMS.
I miss you. I want to give many gifts: one hundred kisses on the nose, one hundred kisses on the forehead, 100 kisses on the cheeks and one passionate kiss on the lips.
You are the only one to whom I want to give all my tenderness, affection and love.
You are my most desired, most beloved, the only one in the world so unique. Love and miss.
I can't help it! My hands are reaching out to write to the man I miss very much. I'm waiting for you and love you.
In order not to miss you, I imagine our future meeting. But this still doesn’t help much. Come back soon.
Every minute my love for you becomes stronger. I’m afraid that when we meet after a long separation, I will strangle you in my tender embrace.
If we don’t see each other soon, I’m afraid I’ll burst from the overwhelming longing for you. Rescue us urgently!
Not a single SMS can convey to you all my tenderness and love. I need to give them to you personally when we meet.
Now I want to throw myself into the arms of the kindest, gentle, affectionate and handsome man in the world. It's a pity that Brad Pitt is not free again. Kidding. I'm talking about you. Waiting for our meeting.

As you can see, it’s not at all difficult to compose pleasant words for your beloved man in prose. Perhaps, if you don’t send him an SMS now with the text “I miss you,” and in your own words, he will never know that you are such a romantic person. Want to start a conversation with something less expressive? OK! Then watch these dedications.

Endless goodness and big hugs to everyone!

Affectionate words: how to use

Beautiful words to your beloved man in your own words are an ideal way to illustrate a warm, reverent, attentive attitude. Tender words addressed to the “strong half” can take various forms.

Psychologists say that for a man to best perceive compliments, phrases and words should be short and extremely “transparent.”

Diminutive forms of words have this characteristic:

bunny;
cat;
pet;
Sun;
darling;
smile.

Examples of phrases to make a guy smile

The phrase can be sexual or casual in nature.

Men like initiative from a woman

You can send a message in the middle of the workday or on a trip, when the guy least expects it.

Use humor: “Darling, do you know that in order to smile, a person needs to use about seventy muscles? I suggest you pump them up right now!”
Emphasize that you feel bad without him: “I miss you and your morning coffee. Thank you for a great start to the day!” or “I wish I could quickly return home and find myself in your warm arms...”.
Intrigue a man, make him look forward to a date: “Tonight you will not only have a delicious dinner, but also an interesting night program. Come back quickly, and I’ll take a shower...”
Remind that you are worried about your lover and will always support him: “Good morning! May this day be rich and bright, I am nearby.”
Give your man an original compliment: “I love your dimples when you smile. Smile now, come on!”

You can also use funny pictures and videos, but for this it is important to know about the tastes and sense of humor of your man.

I love yours (yours, yours)…

Find at least one person who doesn't like receiving compliments. If you decide to write a nice message to your beloved guy (romantic or erotic), then do not forget to indicate what exactly you like about him. You can also add a trivial ellipsis at the end, which symbolizes the desire to meet your lover as soon as possible. Here is just a small list of examples for the template:

I love your beautiful blue eyes, in which I literally drown with happiness;
I love your pumped up biceps, I want you to quickly take me in your arms;
I love your sense of humor so much - you always know how to make me laugh.

As you can see, by adding a little detail to a template phrase, we practically bring it to life. The most important thing in this case is not to be afraid to tell the guy something that embarrasses you. As a rule, it is precisely such phrases that sink into the soul.

SMS to a guy to get him hooked and interested

Young girls in the initial stages of dating are wondering how to increase a guy’s interest.

To do this, you can use phrases that will hook a man and make him feel feelings for you:

“You know, since our last meeting I realized something about you, it turns out that you are not who you say you are.” This message will make him think a lot about you.
"Hello! Did you happen to study at school number..., maybe you are familiar with...? I’ve been looking for him for a long time.” In this way, you will unobtrusively start a dialogue, even if you do not have mutual acquaintances.
“I have a gift for you that will delight you this winter. Would you like to know which one?"
“I urgently need your help! Can you help me choose a dress for the evening? I’ll send you the options now.” This is a rather bold option for girls, but this way you will raise the guy’s self-esteem, because of all other men, it is his opinion that is important to you.
“Can you tell me which gym you go to? You look amazing!". Guys love compliments on their figure.
"Hello! I noticed you yesterday, don’t worry, I won’t tell anyone.”

Is it necessary to thank a man for his care and help?

Certainly.

You are pleased when a man thanks you for an ironed shirt or a clean towel brought to the shower. Same for a man. If he helped you around the house, took your child outside, or cooked dinner, don't hesitate to thank him.

Be interested in his hobbies and experiences, notice the slightest changes. Communicate, talk, appreciate and thank. Do whatever you would like to receive in return.

Have a nice evening for two. Options may vary:

pleasant relaxing massage;
watch a movie or an important match together with beer and goodies;
cook his favorite dish;
Give him some little thing related to his hobby. For a musician - guitar strings, for a fisherman - fishing line or bait.
or have a lazy day at home.

And this is not the entire list of possible options. Be guided by your knowledge, feelings and intuition.

Nice SMS for a guy you like

Men need female tenderness and warm attitude. The fair half can use cunning and make the man he likes smile even from a distance.

Men need feminine tenderness and warmth

You will become a source of positive emotions for him, which he will always strive for.

“Beloved (boyfriend’s name)! I want to apologize for paying so little attention to you lately. I promise to improve and prepare a little surprise for you tonight.” This message can be sent if you have been very busy at work lately.
“I want to wish you good luck today! May success follow you everywhere."
"Sweet dreams! I fall asleep thinking about you and hope to see you soon.”

On the VKontakte network

“Remember, you are not only number one on my list of best friends, but you also hold a special place in my heart.”
“Seconds without you are an eternity. Come to me soon, I miss you so much!”
“What a beautiful smile you have in your profile photo! I envy myself and still don’t believe in my happiness.”

“It’s your fault that I still can’t sleep. “Only memories of our meeting and kisses are in my thoughts.”
“At night, more than ever, I want to be in your arms, my main desire is for you to hold me tightly and not let me go.”
“You are so sweet that your dreams today should only be sugar.”

What to write to a stranger to make him smile?

When messaging a stranger, it is important to appear unobtrusive and establish easy communication.

It is important to appear unobtrusive when messaging a stranger

You should not use diminutive expressions so as not to scare off the guy you like.

You can send a neutral emoticon and see the reaction. If the guy sends a smile back, you should continue the conversation.
Give a compliment: “I wonder if nice guys make interesting conversationalists?”
“I think our t-shirts match perfectly in our profile photos! What do you think?".
"Hello! My friend said that she has a cute boyfriend who wouldn't mind chatting. Can you guess who she meant?
You can send him a beautiful photo with your face, but without bare parts of the body. Then use the standard “Oh, sorry, wrong number” and look at the reaction.
You can write honestly and openly: “Hello! I really don’t want to distract you, but I’m missing new people and interesting acquaintances in my life right now. Let's try to chat a little?"

You are the most... in this world!

Try to be as creative as possible when filling in the blanks in the template, especially if you want to send a really nice message to your guy. Of course, you can use the banal: best, cheerful, loving, gentle, kind, caring, but it’s still better to come up with something truly unique and inimitable. You can also add a little specificity after such a phrase. Here is a small example: “You are the most honest and sincere in this huge world. I feel like I can trust you completely." Absolutely any guy will want to hear a similar phrase addressed to him. And relationships that are built on mutual trust between partners will never be destroyed.

What not to do in correspondence with guys

You need to remember what not to do in correspondence with the guy you like.

After all, the wrong phrases can destroy even the most promising relationships:

Don't be intrusive. Based on the speed of his answers to you and his desire to develop the dialogue, you will understand everything yourself. Don't waste your time, there are many worthy men in the world.
Do not use rude words or obscene expressions. You need to create a feminine and soft image that you want to protect.
Don't respond to his messages for a long time. Guys are annoyed by feigned pride.

WHAT TO WRITE IN YOUR OWN WORDS?

The goal that the girl set for herself when she was going to write to the guy is important. It is also necessary to understand the character of a person and his needs. Phrases may differ from each other in content and writing style. If a girl wants to make a guy laugh, cheer him up, she can write something humorous or ironically recall some situation in which she found herself. A young man will appreciate light humor and the ability to laugh at himself.

These words must come from the heart

The guy's smile will be caused by warm, tender words sent to him by his beloved. Such a message must be sincere; it is important to convey your true feelings. Among loving couples, the use of romantic nicknames and addresses is allowed: kitten, bunny, sunshine. The message can highlight the guy’s merits and strengths. A girl can emphasize that her chosen one is the best in the world.

Great option to write something original

You can write an original message to a young man and surprise him with some ingenuity. Using an SMS message, a girl can unobtrusively invite her lover on a date or ask him for help: fixing the computer, troubleshooting the operating system. The man will feel that his girlfriend appreciates his competence and professionalism, so she will gladly come to the rescue.

Every young man has his own weaknesses. If a girl is able to detect them, saying in time what the chosen one wants to hear, she is guaranteed success. The most attractive phrases for the stronger sex:

"You are my hero".
“For me, you are the best, smartest, bravest man.”

These phrases may look banal, but they have the most powerful effect on the recipient. During a long separation, you can write the following to your boyfriend:

"I miss you so much."
"I love you so much."
“It’s so lonely and empty here without you.”
“I can’t wait to see you again.”
“Without you my life is empty.”

It is impossible to find a universal phrase that can please every single man. Here it is necessary to take into account both the character of your loved one and his lifestyle. A brutal man leading a sporty lifestyle will not be delighted with an endless stream of tender messages. A girl can carefully and unobtrusively emphasize his strong qualities - courage, courage, and show that she admires the physical strength of her lover. It is best for a researcher to say pleasant words regarding his high mental abilities.

There is no need to be afraid of experiments, using new, unusual and pleasant words in practice. To prevent beautiful phrases from becoming boring, you should regularly expand your vocabulary of “tenderness”. In this case, it is necessary to monitor the reaction of the young man, understanding what effect this or that spoken phrase had. Sometimes a girl can write something vulgar to a guy with whom she has a close relationship, but such a phrase should not be too provocative. When flirting with a guy, a girl can use the following unusual and original phrases:

“I so want to be on a desert island, alone with you, so that there is no one else there except us - only the azure ocean coast, palm trees and beautiful jungle around. How do you like this idea?
“When we met your eyes, I was lost in the maze of your charming gaze. Can you help me find a way out?

HOW TO WRITE A GUY SO THAT HE LIKES IT?

A girl must understand that the words addressed to a stranger whom she sees for the first time and knows only from her profile on a social network, and a man with whom she has a long-term relationship, will differ from each other. If the author of the message wants the addressee to respond, it is necessary to end the phrase with some original question. This may concern the guy’s interests or a new photo in his avatar posted on his social network. Here the girl should be careful not to become too intrusive.

We write on VKontakte (VK)

During a long correspondence on a social network, a person can open up, show his true feelings, the aspirations of his soul. By corresponding with a guy on the VKontakte social network for a long time, a girl can express her tenderness and show mercy without hesitation, which will help her remain close friends with the person she likes. This period of correspondence can completely affect the future relationship with your beloved guy.

A girl can write emails of any content, but these messages should not cause boredom. The following banal phrases should be avoided:

“Honey, I miss you.”
“It’s so sad here without you.”

We write to a man in the morning

If a girl has just recently started dating a guy, she can remind herself at the most unexpected moment and make her lover’s morning begin with her SMS message. The most suitable phrases for morning greetings:

“Good morning, my dear. How did you sleep without me?
“Darling, my pillow still smells like you, come home soon.”

At night and in the evening

Messages sent in the evening can make quite a strong impression. It all depends on what stage the relationship between the guy and the girl is at. After several meetings, you should not write the following to a guy:

“I wish I could be next to you right now.”
"I can't sleep without you."

The young man will not see anything romantic in these phrases and will misunderstand them. A girl can write to a guy jokingly: “Good night, may you dream about me.” This phrase, written before bed, will help attract the attention of your chosen one to yourself.

We write to a conscript soldier

During correspondence with a young man who is serving in the military, a girl may emphasize that she greatly misses her lover and is waiting for his return. You should not become overly sentimental, since it is also not easy for a guy to experience separation from his beloved. A girl can tell a guy about what’s new in the city, how her family, mutual acquaintances and friends are doing. Love letters to a conscript soldier should be kind and heartfelt. Every girl will be able to choose the words that will encourage and support the guy.

Tender words in compliments

You can express warm feelings to a man not only with beautiful confessions, but also with unobtrusive compliments. It is appropriate to note the character traits inherent in a man, to emphasize masculinity and intelligence.

A man needs confirmation of strength, recognition of superiority.

Next to you I can relax and allow myself to be weak. Thank you for your reliability.
Only your witty jokes can make me smile even when I'm in a bad mood.
It’s amazing how you didn’t get confused in such a situation and continued to act. I'm sure that if I were in your place, I would give up.

PLEASANT SMS FOR YOUR LOVED ONE IS A WHOLE ART

A distinctive feature of an SMS message is its brevity. Writing a small SMS beautifully and meaningfully is an art. You can surprise your loved one with an original and funny joke that can cheer up the recipient. He will remember a good joke and tell it to his family and friends. The man will understand that he is communicating with a lively, witty girl and will appreciate her even more.

Poems of your own composition sent via SMS will prove that the girl has talent and creativity. Anyone will love beautiful poems addressed to him personally. Such messages lift your mood and self-esteem.

At the beginning of dating, preference should be given to more neutral messages. At this time, you should not write too frank phrases or declarations of love to the young man. In the early stages, a man needs to take the initiative; this will bring great benefits for the further development of the relationship.

Why is it important not to forget to say beautiful words to a man?

Given the inherent brutality and independence of men, most of them need a simple feeling of tenderness, the feeling that they are dear and loved by a woman.
Psychologists believe that men who regularly hear beautiful words from their other half are often more successful in business. This fact is explained by self-confidence. A feeling of “positive” superiority over competitors is given to a young man by his beloved with words, affection, and attention.
Many boys were raised by men from early childhood, which means they rarely heard gentle words. Growing up, to gain confidence in making masculine decisions, a “boy” needs beautiful words and praise from the person closest to him—his beloved.
A correctly chosen gentle word can resolve many conflicts and set a man in the right direction for a woman to make an important decision.

NICE WORDS TO HUSBAND

In family life, sometimes it is necessary to be distracted from everyday affairs and worries. A husband will always be pleased by the manifestation of care and attention from his wife. You can send a message to your loved one while he is at work or on a business trip. Having received a gentle SMS message, the husband will return home in a good mood.

Psychologists advise to openly show your feelings, remain friendly and sweet, and not hide your concern for your loved one. Phrases you can write to your husband:

“Since you appeared in my life, peace has appeared in my soul, and happiness has appeared in my heart.”
“You are the best husband, being your wife is a great happiness.”

The Magic of Gratitude

A man is grateful only when he feels grateful to himself.

Imagine you came home after work and by the time your husband arrived you had already prepared a meal. You have dinner together and at the end, you hear words of gratitude for dinner. He says this especially, so that you are pleased to hear it. Being a little inspired, you will want to do something for him again. It is so?

It is also important for our men to say “Thank you.” They are pleased to hear this too. Think, perhaps he will look at you differently if you whisper words of gratitude in his ear and at the same time hug him with admiring eyes. This will please not only you, but also your man.

Only with affection, care and respect can you win your husband’s favor

Why gratitude

Gratitude is linked to mental health more strongly than any other personality trait. Gratitude develops our spiritual world, teaches us to love ourselves, increases our self-esteem, improves sleep and gives us energy.

Gratitude is very good for your health.

Gratitude makes us 25% happier!

Scientist Robert Emmons says:

“Without gratitude, life can be lonely, depressing, exhausting. Gratitude enriches a person's life. She elevates him, inspires him, energizes him and transforms him. Expressing gratitude makes a person more active, open and humble.”

It has been scientifically proven that gratitude

Gives energy
Develops emotional intelligence
Teaches you to forgive
Reduces depression levels
Reduces anxiety levels
Increases the feeling of unity with society
Improves sleep
relieves headaches

Cicero:

“Gratitude is not only the highest virtue, but also the mother of all virtues.”

WHAT NOT TO WRITE OR TYPICAL MISTAKES OF GIRLS

You should not write SMS messages containing grammatical errors. When sending love confessions, it is important to follow the spelling rules. Also, a girl should not demand increased attention from a young man or find fault with him. By becoming intrusive, a girl will only push her lover away.

If disagreements arise, you should not insult or humiliate your interlocutor. It is allowed to use light irony in letters, but jokes invented out of place can disappoint a person and push him away from the girl. In this case, it will be difficult to regain the goodwill and trust of your chosen one, and to keep the relationship the same.

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