I love you very much, but I keep cheating

What to do if a guy cheats?

We already figured out why a guy cheats in the previous article. Now let's talk about what to do if a guy cheats. Nowadays, betrayal as such happens quite often. Society is gradually becoming dissolute. What do you think about this?

Now you found out about your boyfriend’s betrayal, congratulations. What are your own thoughts? If your thoughts on this matter still haven’t appeared, let’s try to think together. I will now list a few points, and you read and think about it. And in the end, make a conclusion for yourself whether it is worth continuing your relationship with the guy who exchanged your beloved for some kind of scam.

What to do if a guy cheats on you:

1. Sit down and think, do you even need this guy? You've been dating him for a year, or maybe two years. Or at least a month. And then I found out that he cheated on you. Do you need a guy who traded you for someone else? How long should it take for you to completely forgive him and close your eyes to his actions? Perhaps a year, perhaps two months, or perhaps... Will you be able to continue a normal relationship with him, knowing what happened? Every time he goes for a walk somewhere or lingers somewhere after work, your thoughts will only be about cheating. Do you need it? Just think carefully before answering these questions.

4. If options one through three don’t suit you, just move on. Don't answer his calls, stop communicating with him, forget about it and move on with your life. This is the best option when cheating. You have pride too. You shouldn't stoop below your dignity. And yours should be higher than that of three people like him.

The most important point in any relationship is to understand what can be tolerated and what is better to ignore. It is important to set your priorities correctly. As soon as you learn to do this objectively and efficiently, a smile will always shine on your face and every day you live will be the best. Love yourself and you will be loved.

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Well, I read a lot of useful stuff here. And I read the first article and liked it so much that I read it several times :)))))) And so everything is open as it really is)))) Spa for being such a great author.

Why is the option that he won’t change the second time not considered? Dim, is it really that bad with men?

I found out today that my boyfriend was dating someone else. Even though I broke up with him 2 weeks ago, I can’t forget him, I love him very much. what should I do? how to forget him?

And do nothing, take it and send it away! That's what I did.

Yes, if this nasty thing has cheated even once, it will continue to cheat... It’s better to send this one away and not remember. There are better guys than assholes like that.

Drive him into this neck if he cheats on you.

You know, I could immediately determine whether the guy was a wanderer, or whether he was good and would only be mine. I don’t even know how I do it, but my last life observations have never failed!

I'm like X-ray! Or is it my feminine intuition! Don't know!

I would kill him. Let him just try to change me. It’s easier to immediately order a monument for yourself.

Hello. a year ago I met a guy his name is Lyosha. somewhere in the middle he cheated on me, I forgave him, but then it happened again and I forgave again, but it continued. my friends told me that he simply began to take advantage of my forgiveness. But I still forgave because I loved him very much. Now I’m dating him. but I cry every day. but I can’t quit. That's my problem. maybe someone can tell me what to do?

betrayal after betrayal, and don’t you think that the guy will fucking break this fat hairy waffle iron and you’ll get more.

Hi all! I dated a guy for 2 years, everything was just wonderful with us, I was already planning a further serious relationship, and he too - he introduced me to my parents, we did everything together: I helped him in every possible way with housework, he told all his friends that I am the one he dreamed of! A week ago he told me: “We cannot be together, because... I cheated on you." These words gave me a huge shock, but I experienced an even greater blow when I found out that his mistress became pregnant from him! He asked for forgiveness, but still doesn’t call and we don’t communicate now. He is not going to live with her and they only saw each other twice. I love him madly…..Please help me what to do.

Damn, mine has already cheated on me twice, but I still forgave him, I probably love him because! the same with my ex, what a freak! after that, I completely lost trust in him (((suddenly he’s back with this...****... since I burned them, so I gave her and him stars) but the truth is we weren’t together then! Oh, all the guys *dammit, where can I find a normal one?

Girls, dear! It’s better to experience everything once than to suffer all your life! Find a guy, and even better than your ex! Just ignore him, change his number, take a break, go to a club, play sports….

I started dating a guy 2 weeks later, I found out that he cheated on me, but he was not sober at the time, and the dressmaker was generally passed out, you could say, what should I do, everyone says leave me, but I can’t love him! what to do?

But I’ve been dating a guy for 7 years, during this time I found out that he had 3 girls besides me, I forgave, but then the trust disappeared forever, and then I found out that he infected me with all sorts of diseases, I was cured, to this day I think that he has someone, I suffer terribly, but I love him more than life itself, what to do without any idea (((((((((((

You don’t have to forgive cheating. It’s better to leave right away. I also recently found out about my boyfriend’s cheating. We’ve been together for a little over a year. But he said that he had had enough, that he wanted a family, and he himself lectured me about moral relations. At first I caught him I forgave him for watching it. But when I found out about the real betrayal, it just blew my mind. We are together, but, as they say, people are like a glass of iced tea with sugar: if they cool down, they no longer dissolve in each other.

And this is written by girls who have been in a relationship for 1-7 years. I’ll see what you say when you’ve been married for 20 years and you want to take the plunge yourself. Therefore, everything that is said about the priorities of what is permissible is correct...

these guys are almost all womanizers, it’s rare to find a normal one

Yes, when he has already cheated, and you have forgiven him, nothing good will come of it, you’re just wasting time and that’s it, he cheated the same way and will continue to cheat all his life, do you need this? I don’t think it’s necessary, take yourself and everything into your hands

Dear ladies, please help! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have been living together for about a year. Now I have entered the same university as him. But here’s the problem, now all my friends (who study at the same university) they started talking about him cheating on me, I don’t know for how long, with whom and how. But what should I do?! I just don’t know, and the worst thing is that I might be pregnant! What should I do? Please tell me. I beg you!! I am confused...

I'm 6 months pregnant. husband is an athlete. There was never a time when I didn’t trust him. His training camps can last for months and in a foreign city or country, once again he flew away for training camp, it turned out that he cheated on me. The fact that I was pregnant didn’t stop him, I don’t understand his purpose. I asked him if maybe there was something wrong with me. It's insulting and very painful.

My boyfriend and I have been living together for a year, he is an athlete (he has now given up training), he was going to training camp. In general, at the very beginning of the relationship, he cheated on me. He told me about it six months later, and then with the help of our mutual friend. in the summer I went home for more than 2 months to another city, I’m sure that he cheated on me. And before his arrival, I also cheated on him... now we have separated, but I’m sure everyone cheats, and the fact that he cheated on me, I reacted to it It’s easier when you change it yourself.

Hello. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. and recently I found out that he is secretly communicating with another girl from me, and I am sure that it is not friendly. what should I do? what should I tell him?

yeah... none of these points apply in my case... today I found out that the person who confessed his love to me and whom I fell in love with very much... turned out to be a womanizer... there’s no other way to call it. I don’t know what to do and what to do....

Forgive your husband's cheating

• If you want to forgive a man, then you need to forget about the betrayal, and not remind you of it every time. Let him appreciate such a quality in you as the ability to forgive.
• Calmly talk about it. When a man is committed to “peace”, most often he chooses defensive tactics and agrees to the woman’s conditions.
• Whatever happens, always soberly assess the situation and make a decision. If you managed to notice in time that a man cheated on you and find out the reasons for the betrayal, perhaps you will be able to prevent a repetition of such an act and save your family.
• “A man is the head, and a woman is the neck”; wherever the neck turns, the head looks there. Show wisdom and vigilance. Eliminate possible causes of cheating.
• Spend more time together, it makes sense to go somewhere together to relax. Your sex life should be vibrant, experiment and then your man will be sure that you are that unique and sexy one, and is unlikely to want to cheat!

In conclusion, I would like to remind you that betrayal is not the end of the world, and therefore is it worth tormenting over it? After all, life doesn’t end there and a loving and devoted man worthy of you awaits you ahead!

What to write to a guy to interest him? Guide to action

What to write to a guy to interest him? Guide to action

It used to be that people met through matchmakers, relatives, on the street, at school, at college. Now everything has changed radically. We meet online, in chat rooms, on matchmaking sites. Consequently, communication begins not with glances, but with words. What should you write to a guy to get him interested in you, so that he pays attention and wants to talk closer?

Your boyfriend cheated on you. You won’t be able to forgive him (you know for sure). But you can’t just leave either. Your trail is a farewell letter, where you pour out your whole soul on wet lines.

Write him a goodbye letter. Write! In it you can reflect your entire state. Write what is in your soul, in your heart, in your inner world.

Get yourself together, because writing will be hard too. There's no need to sugarcoat anything. Write everything as it is. If you are afraid to write something wrong, a sample letter will be waiting for you a little lower.

You can do whatever you want with the sample:

1. You can ignore it and write your own and unique.
2. You may not notice it, imagining that it was not there at all.
3. You can take a few lines from it or the whole idea. You will not be punished for plagiarism.
4. You can correct this letter.

You have the fullest right to dispose of it. Before you decide what to do with it, think it over very, very well.

Farewell letter to a loved one (spiritual sample)

“Hello, my beloved traitor!
I never thought that I would write these words to you... But you deserve them, sorry. Our love is a past that will not become the present or the future. There is no need to look for those responsible for the separation, no need to try to fix anything. We parted, my dear, because our destinies needed it. Explanations are useless.

When you came to see me for the first time, it was a wonderful evening. And when I saw you on the threshold with a huge plush toy, the evening became even more wonderful. I can’t imagine how you brought her to the fifth floor without an elevator... You shocked all the steps leading to my floor!

We had fun, laughed, talked. I couldn't believe that I've known you for over ten years. We didn’t communicate before, but I remember how you ran after me, how you blushed and became shy when we met. But I was so inaccessible that the sky and stars seemed much more accessible to you.

You asked my parents for your hand in marriage. That evening when we ran to warm our hands in the kitchen. We were afraid to wake them up, but they woke up on their own. Apparently because our love was incredibly strong. The parents came to us, but did not shout. They smiled silently and said that we would talk in the morning.

No…. I won't remember this. There is no more meaning! I love every bit of my past that is connected with you. But this is not a reason to turn the past into the present.

You changed. You cheated on me, even though you swore that you would never do such a thing. And I believed. Believed, loved, adored. And I didn’t even suspect that you could or would want to be with another woman.

And don’t try to return it, because I won’t give in to your persuasion. I sincerely wish you great happiness. I won't hate you. I won't blame. I just want you to disappear from my life forever! Don't say that doing this will be more complicated than that. Because it doesn't concern me.

I know how rude I am now. What did you expect? That I'll jump into your arms and we'll forget everything? I'm not vindictive, but I'm not the one who forgives absolutely everything. Don't shower me with toys, rings and flowers: it won't help! Have you completely forgotten about female pride? I remind you!

How I hoped that you would be a support and support for me. How I dreamed of a strong, real shoulder. But you didn't set it up for me. You betrayed me! How could you apologize after something like that? Even funny, although not laughable at all.

Believe me: there were wonderful moments in my life that appeared solely thanks to you.

I love you…. I love you, but I will hate you. Hate quietly, without revenge and scandals. It’s good for you: you can safely continue your infidelities. But already without me in your life.

Girl, don't be upset, please. Many people cheat on many people. And you are no exception. Just consider yourself unlucky. Either you have to come to terms with it, or forget it, or...

No one will force you to write a letter. If you want, don't write. You can tell him everything in words. The meaning will not change from this, actually. And the letter was invented in order to alleviate the difficulty of the task. Writing is easier than speaking, looking into your eyes. Ask those who like to chat on the Internet.

Don't think about what he will say or how he will react. Think about that. How your future will turn out. And it should turn out well, because you deserve it. And don't blame yourself for that. That you're unlucky with another guy. Fate sometimes likes to play unfair tricks on people. She is to blame for what happened to you.

How to determine that a man has cheated?

Changes in your man's (husband's) behavior can tell a lot.

• The husband begins to desire to be more at work.
• A password has appeared on the phone and he often holds the phone in his hands, checking new messages. To answer the call, he leaves the room, explaining that his business is boring and uninteresting.
• Your man's strange behavior is the first signal.
• Your man has begun to take more care of his appearance. I started going to the gym and started jogging. Got myself a stylish hairstyle. He often hangs around in the mirror, expressing dissatisfaction with his physical form.
• A lot of new fashionable clothes appeared in his wardrobe, which he had never cared about before. He began to wear expensive perfume and exchanged simple watches for expensive ones.
• Your husband may express strong dissatisfaction with you and may criticize your appearance and your behavior. If a man cheats , he can find fault with how you run your household and how you dress. Often the reason why a man can cheat is that his wife ceases to be interesting as a person and as a woman.
• But the surest sign of betrayal is the “absent” look of a man. When you communicate with him, you feel that it is more like a monologue. He can barely restrain a yawn, his thoughts are somewhere far away, but not near you. Such glances are an important signal. This is where unrest begins, exhausting thoughts and speculations.

You will be the most loved and most desired!

You made the choice yourself... We won't see you again. Yesterday you were the dearest, today you are a bastard and the most alien. Let your life turn out as you want, but now you will not have our common and bright dream!

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All people, of course, are different, but most will not be able to forgive betrayal of their loved one. When you trust a person and believe every word, and when you let a person into your heart, it is very painful to learn about such things as betrayal. Unfortunately, guys tend to cheat. They don’t see anything special in this, but girls, on the contrary, are very vulnerable about this. An SMS to a guy who cheated may be the last SMS from a girl. Love can be destroyed with just one act - betrayal. All you can do is wish him good luck in your future life and drive him out of your heart. It will be impossible to trust the person who betrayed again, as they believed before. These relationships can no longer be full and real. Yes, everyone makes mistakes, but each one entails certain consequences. Let go of the cheater and get ready for a new life.