If a guy invites a girl on a date, and she refuses immediately or after some time, then this, of course, is very unpleasant and sad, but it is quite possible to survive. Perhaps the girl has some reason, and she really cannot meet on the appointed day and time. In this case, you can hope that the date will still take place, just on another day. This is a completely everyday situation. The second option is possible when the girl doesn’t want to date you at all. There's nothing you can do about it. Although if you continue to communicate or meet at school or college, then there is still a chance to gain her trust.
However, what to do at that very moment when you receive a refusal from a date? Nothing special. Accept rejection gracefully. You can tell the girl that you wanted to have fun with her, that it’s a pity that the meeting will not take place, but you will find something to do without her. In this case, you will maintain your self-respect, and the girl may regret in her heart that she refused the date. Moreover, such a conversation cannot be considered a complete break and there is a small chance of saving the relationship. If you never see this girl again, you will also not regret your behavior - you were on top. Perhaps someone overheard your conversation and you did the right thing by accepting the refusal with dignity and responding with tact and politeness. The reputation of a pleasant and skillful person in communication is always beneficial. If this makes you feel better, you can then delete the girl’s phone number from the phone book. All the emotions come later. By the way, by restrainedly expressing regret about the breakup and politely saying goodbye, people suffer less from a breakup than with a silent breakup or scandal.
In the life of every person there are many meetings and partings. Maybe this girl seemed like the best, but if she refused to date, then you are not that good for each other. Look at life more cheerfully, a little time will pass and you will truly meet your one and only.
Do you ask a girl to go for a walk, but she refuses you? How to behave in this case, because refusal greatly affects the emotional state, and the hope for a future relationship with the girl decreases.
Why does she refuse
Despite the fact that there are different ways to persuade a girl to go on a date, you need to understand that without eliminating the reason for her refusal, one way or another, it will still be difficult to proceed further. Especially when you consider the fact that refusals most often occur due to the fact that she simply didn’t like you.
It's like with the flu: you can try to drink hot tea, drink liters of coffee to feel better. But until you eliminate its cause, you will not be able to fully recover.
Therefore, we will look into the reasons for the refusal.
- She's having "those" days
She may have liked you when she met you or on a previous date. But, most likely, she will refuse to meet you because she will not be ready for sex.
Think about it, if she refused you only once, then maybe it’s too early to sound the alarm?
