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From a moral point of view, taking a married man away from the family is an act that deserves universal condemnation. However, when their own happiness is at stake, few women think about the correctness of their choice, even if, in addition to the wife, the chosen one also has children. Relationships with a married man do not always deserve condemnation. Often his marriage is heading towards divorce for a long time, and the so-called homewrecker becomes a reason for a man to leave his family. If the relationship between the spouses is so bad that strangers notice it, the hunters of happiness begin to worry about the question of how to make a married man fall in love with her. Psychological techniques for influencing people make it possible not only to direct the situation in the right direction, but also to ultimately achieve the desired result.
Is it difficult to make a married man fall in love with you?
A married man is an easy target
Making a married man fall in love with you is not that difficult.
And not at all because you are so charming and attractive, and his wife is perhaps worse than you. It's just that most men (most, but not all) are potentially ready to cheat. Nature has decreed that men are mostly polygamous, that is, during their lives they cannot limit themselves to one partner. The roots of this phenomenon go back to ancient times, when this male quality was necessary for the continuous renewal, replenishment and preservation of people as a species, at least so scientists assume. But let’s not go into such scientific jungle, most men have this feature, period. Moreover, a husband, having become interested in another woman, does not necessarily dislike his wife. He loves her in his own way, appreciates his home base, but he doesn’t mind getting new pleasant sensations. Feeling young again, in love, and also an element of romance, mystery and adventure, in general, almost any married man does not mind “going to the left.” Therefore, the task of making a married man fall in love with you does not present any particular difficulties, but...
Which men are taboo for seduction?
There are two categories of married men who are unlikely to fall in love with you
- Firstly, these are married, monogamous men. Yes, yes, there is such a category of married men, although it does not occur often. There are such “women in Russian villages” whose husband will not cheat. In the first case, he really loves his soul mate very much, and other women simply do not exist for him. In the second, she is such a smart woman (namely smart, and not necessarily very beautiful), she has arranged their family life in such a way that it doesn’t even occur to her husband to “go to the left.” But such wives are also quite rare.
- Secondly, recently married men. Very rarely, a man who has just gotten married will look at other women. Although, there are also Casanovas who, literally after the honeymoon, are no longer averse to going wild. There are no unconditional rules in the field of feelings.
If you want to make a married man fall in love with you, these two categories of husbands need to be taken into account. It is not difficult to understand or find out that your item is from these two categories. In the first case, women's intuition should work; from the reaction of this man to other women, it is not difficult to understand that for him there is only one woman in the world - his wife. In the second case, you can simply find out that the man was recently married.
It's easier to make a married man fall in love with you than an unmarried man.
No matter how strange it may seem at first glance, it is easier to lasso a married man than a single man. Especially if the man has been married for more than three years. Scientists claim that it is after three years that the chemical processes in a man’s body that occur during the period of falling in love stop, and ardent love-passion turns into calm affection-friendship, and this is even in the best case. And at worst, in three years the spouse gets to know his other half quite well, and he begins to dislike many things about her (all girls are good, where do bad wives come from). Or he is already somewhat fed up with the established, calm family life, and wants romance and adventure. So, a man who has been married for more than three years is already potentially ready for a new relationship. And if he has not yet cheated on his wife, this usually does not indicate his great love for her or his high decency, but simply the opportunity has not yet presented itself. So, making a married man fall in love with you is not too difficult. But the area of feelings is not mathematics; there are no clear rules and precise concepts. And you cannot expect that after some specific, clearly verified actions of yours, a mandatory result will follow, a man will certainly fall in love with you. The behavior tactics of a woman who wants a married man to fall in love with her are no different from hunting for a free man, only her task is much easier, because, as mentioned above, a married man is an easier prey than an unmarried man. The same methods that work on a single person will be useful here: a well-groomed appearance, seductive but not vulgar clothes, easy flirtation, the ability to show your interest, but without intrusiveness. I won’t repeat myself and tell you how to make a married man fall in love with you. This is written in great detail in the article from the same section “How to captivate a man, the art of seduction.” All the methods and techniques discussed in this article are quite suitable and will even work faster on a married man.
How to attract the attention of a married man: psychological techniques
The following techniques will help a woman attract the attention of a married man:
- you need to be alone with a man. This must be done without arousing suspicion, for example, invite him to a joint event, and then say that friends or colleagues could not come;
- find places where you can meet regularly, for example at the same courses, at a fitness club or while jogging in the park. It is important to catch his eye more often.
Finding yourself alone with a man, you can use the usual methods of seduction for all women, from intimate conversation to outright flirting. Be active, and if he has already paid attention to you, the result needs to be consolidated.
Do not neglect the nonverbal signs of expression of sympathy that are characteristic of the fairer sex:
- you can straighten your hair with a slow, graceful gesture while communicating with a man;
- smile with a mysterious look, then, as if thinking for a minute, fix your gaze on his neck or chin, and when he notices, shyly look away to the side;
- casually run your fingers along your neck.
Depending on his personality type
When choosing the appropriate tactics, it is important to consider one important point: what does not satisfy a man in his own wife. To understand this, you need to carefully study the object of persecution.
Stubborn
This type of man is not inclined to start relationships on the side, so it will be difficult to entice him. Only a woman who will become a good friend for him will be able to win over a stubborn man.
An affair with such a man is very rare. Even if he cheats on his own wife, he will try to hide it. Such a man tries to save the marriage until the last moment, so you can win him only if you sincerely love and want to be with him.
How to make a married man fall in love with you and take him away from the family
You love your unfree man so much that just being his mistress is not enough for you, you want him to become your constant companion. Well, there’s nothing new under the sun, “there are so many single guys, but I love a married man.” But keep in mind that this problem is much more difficult, sometimes it has no solution, and sometimes you may not like its solution later. I’m not even talking about the moral aspects of this issue, that taking a man away from the family is ugly, merciless and immoral. Issues of morality in the modern world are somewhat blurred, and sometimes morality bashfully retreats under the onslaught of true love. Morality, morality, but making a married man fall in love with you so much that he leaves the family is not an easy task. Although, in the field of feelings, nothing is impossible, and in love, as in war, all means are good. And yet, men leave their families much less often than they simply cheat on their wives. If you say in one sentence how to make a married man fall in love with you so that he leaves you, you need him to feel much better, more comfortable and more interesting with you than in the family, so that he not only wants to date you, but so that he is afraid of losing you. Yes, everything seems simple, but how to do it? Some women don’t even need to create such a situation; a man falls in love so much (even without much effort on the part of the woman) that he is ready to do anything for the sake of his beloved, even leave his family. But more often, a woman has to make a lot of effort and behave wisely so that her beloved wants to change the cozy family haven to the unknown sea of a new life together.
Find out your rival
The first step in this direction is to find out as much as possible about your loved one's wife and their family relationships. Just don’t try to acquire this information by asking your loved one. This is the wrong tactic. Perhaps he himself will tell you something about her and about their relationship, you just need to be able to listen and express interest. You can learn a lot this way. If a man says nothing about his wife and family life, this fact can have a double meaning. Either he is simply a noble man and does not want to talk badly about her, or he loves her in his own way, so he does not consider it possible to discuss a woman still dear to him with his mistress. Then this information can be obtained from acquaintances or friends of this family; women love to gossip, and you can learn a lot by showing unobtrusive interest.
Specific actions on how to make a married man fall in love and take him away from the family
This information about his wife is necessary in order not to be like her, not to repeat her mistakes. A simple example: it is hardly possible to seriously captivate a man with the warmth and comfort of your apartment, skillfully prepared dishes, and deliberate concern for his comfort, if he sees all this all the time at home, and all these worries are already somewhat boring to him. If his wife is a cozy, sweet, homely woman, a good housewife, then it is unlikely that she will fall in love with her enough to take him away from the family with the same behavior. You need to become the complete opposite of his wife, but with a plus sign. This does not mean that when the wife is a good housewife, he will certainly fall in love with a slob and incompetence. In a word, you need to fight and defeat your wife on the field, where her position is often weakened:
- After several years of marriage, family life usually turns into a routine and conversations between spouses are conducted mainly about everyday things: what to buy, how to make repairs, about studies and the behavior of children. Therefore, in order to make a married man fall in love with you so much that he wants to stay with you forever, you need to become an interesting interlocutor for him. Which interlocutor is the most interesting? One who listens with interest and discusses with interest topics that interest the other interlocutor. Your loved one can talk with pleasure about his work, career, hobbies, and even remember his youth. Any topic that interests him needs to be supported, discussed with interest, perhaps even objected to on some points and allowed to be convinced. Then your man will be convinced that he has met a “soulmate,” a woman who understands him perfectly.
- It is unlikely that a wife often admires some qualities of her husband and looks at him with delight. And if he does praise, it will be for taking out the trash can on time or for helping in cleaning the apartment. Family everyday life erases the patina of masculinity from a man, even if he has it. Admiration for him as a man, for some of his purely masculine actions, career successes, his erudition, his athletic figure, or whatever, will become another brick in the wall separating him from his wife. But such admiration should not be deliberate and insincere; a man will immediately feel the falseness.
- Often, after several years of marriage, sex between spouses turns into fulfillment of marital duty. Therefore, sex with you should be completely different, enchanting and desirable for him. When partners are in love with each other, sex usually happens like this.
How to make a married man think about you constantly
The following recommendations will help you prevent a man from forgetting about you:
- enjoy what you have here and now, don’t pretend for more;
- continue to live your own life, independent of your relationship. A man must understand that you are not ready to accept him around the clock and change plans at the first request of your lover. Do not turn yourself into a woman waiting for her beloved at the window until old age;
- find common ground. You must have common interests. Only in this case a woman becomes not just a lover, but also a good friend;
- learn to satisfy his needs. And it's not just about sex. In addition to intimacy, men value the ability to cook deliciously, give a relaxing massage and much more. In a word, do what he doesn’t get enough of in the family;
- Be sincerely interested in how your man lives and breathes. To do this, it is not enough to listen; you need to be able to give appropriate advice, sympathize, and show genuine interest in the events of his life. Be open and he will open to you;
- become different from other women and his wife. If a man runs away from his family, it means he is looking for something. Try to find out what exactly he is looking for on the side. If there is a lack of understanding in the family, learn to listen and understand; if there is comfort, create all the conditions for this; if there is not enough sex, become a priestess of love for him;
- do not provoke a man to jealousy. The presence of competitors can cause doubts in the soul. A man will begin to think about whether he really needs such a woman, or whether it is better to have a single wife who is devoted to him.
Fatal mistakes of lovers
To fall in love with and keep a married man, it is important not only to make some efforts, but it is equally important to avoid the most common mistakes that women often make in such difficult relationships. Such mistakes most often lead to a breakdown in relationships.
So, what not to do if you want not only to make a married man fall in love with you, but also to keep him:
- There is no need to force him to make a “me or her” choice. Such an ultimatum cannot push him to make a decision in your favor. Men don't like to be pressured into making decisions under duress. If he is in love with you and does not want to lose you, he will most likely become yours,
- You should not show your jealousy, even if deep down you are jealous of your loved one for his wife. Let her be jealous, and you should be calm and confident. The phrases “you love her more than me”, “she is dear to you, but I am not” will only irritate him,
- There is no need to be intrusive, bombarding him with SMS and incessant calls, asking for meetings and dates. This kind of behavior of yours will most likely push him away and make him wonder if he actually needs such an intrusive woman,
- Under no circumstances should you threaten him that you will tell his wife about your relationship, much less carry out your threat. If he is ready to leave for you, he will inform his wife himself, and will do it as he decides. And if he is not yet ready to take a decisive step, this will only anger him. The fact that you provoked a scandal in his family will turn the man against you. And even if he and his wife separate after this, it is far from a fact that he will leave for you. In general, after all this, he may not want to see you.
Fail
If, after all your suffering, efforts and hopes, a married man does not fall in love with you, or has fallen in love, but does not want to leave the family, do not consider this the ruin of your life. If you don't fall in love, then this is not your man. Just a bad experience, but any experience is not useless, in the next relationship you will be smarter and will not make the mistakes that led to the breakup. Most likely, you will meet someone who will truly love you and whom you will love, and subsequently you will remember with a smile about your failed or unsuccessful romance. If you managed to make a married man fall in love with you, but it didn’t work out to take you away from your family, you shouldn’t regret it either. No wonder one smart person said “be afraid of your wishes, sometimes they come true.” It is likely that the man you obtained with such difficulty would not turn out to be such a handsome prince when you lived together as he seemed to you during your courtship and secret meetings.
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Love is sometimes so strong that girls are not stopped by the presence of a legal spouse at the object of their desire. You can make an unfree husband fall in love with you, but before you do this, think about the consequences. Not everyone, at the moment of blind love, realizes that there is a type of man who easily falls in love and just as quickly cools down, leaving disappointed girls with nothing.
1. To begin with, you should use your natural gifts and lure a man with your beauty. Choose your wardrobe and makeup carefully to further entice the man you like. Be irresistible so that a man will be pleased to look at you. If your legal spouse does not take care of herself, you will benefit from her.
2. Be mysterious, because men appreciate it. Let him pursue you and gain your attention. Excitement will awaken in him, and then you can congratulate yourself on another victory. Don’t be an easy prey, because a married man wants novelty, which means it’s important for him to show his best side.
3. You can make a married man fall in love with you through conversation. Representatives of the stronger sex admit that they often have affairs on the side because they lack simple communication. Listen to the object of your love and try to give him what is missing: conversation and participation in his life. Don’t forget about erudition, which will definitely please a man.
4. Don’t be shy during intimacy, because a man is looking for in you what he didn’t get at home. If you really want a relationship with him, then arrange a holiday for him, which he never received within the walls of his home.
5. A woman who refuses moralizing can make a man fall in love. At home, he has enough of his wife, who, after many years of marriage, has turned into a “saw” and crushes him with constant claims and moralizing. Let your man know that you like attention, praise him and give him compliments that will definitely melt his heart.
6. Under no circumstances should you meddle in his affairs or ask him what the man is trying to hide. Any careless phrase about his personal life, spouse or child can be off-putting, so enjoy what you have and don’t think about your chosen one’s “baggage” if he doesn’t speak on this topic first.
7. Find out what the man you like likes and give him gifts. Perhaps he has a hobby, and then you can give him a gift on a certain topic. He will remember you every time he uses the gift you gave him.
8. Leave a reminder of yourself in the form of a forgotten tube of lipstick in the car, a jacket or a bag of things in the trunk. This way you won’t let go of his attention, and the man will definitely make an appointment for a new meeting to bring back what you have forgotten.
9. Get a man hooked on a new hobby. This could be horse riding, joint trips on excursions, dancing or other leisure activities that you can spend together. Gradually, a window will appear in his schedule, which he will fill with what you offered him. Naturally, in your company.
10. Never give a man ultimatums if you want him to fall in love with you. Forget about forcing him to choose between you and his family. Do not claim him during major holidays, especially if it is his child's birthday. Moreover, you can give a gift with it to please your baby. It doesn’t matter what he says to his wife, the important thing is that you took care of and brought joy to your loved one’s child.
Whether to take a man away from the family or not is a difficult decision that you need to make on your own. Remember that you, too, may find yourself in the place of your ex-wife, because a man, having betrayed him once, can repeat his “success” with you.
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16.10.2018 04:16
